I just want to clarify that my like was because I agree on being neutral. I’m not reading all of this, so if you said something crazy, just know I don’t support it.
I agree with ya on this one...im neutral on both sides
THAT CHILD A BRAT NOT FIT FOR ASIAN HOUSEHOLD HOW DARE HE TALK BACK TO HIS MOTHER. THE FACT THAT HYESUNG ALONE WENT THROUGH WITH THE PREGNANCY SHOULD GIVE HIM SO MUCH CREDIT. THE DISRESPECT IS UNREAL.
Dude Byul was raised with BOTH parents and full with love. He had a family on his father's side, grandparents that adored him, uncles and aunts that loved him. THAT SELF PITY AIN'T SLIPPING WITH ME BRO. LIKE so fucking WHAT if you were an oopsie baby??? You were raised with both parents present in your life and MORE.
Isn't he fucking old enough to realize that instead of being like "oh my mommy didn't want me fucking years ago" BOOHOO I WOULDN'T WANT HIM NOW. After Hyesung stayed because he didn't want to do to Byul what his mother did to him. He fucking panicked when Hyesung found out so it means that HE KNEW HIS MOM WAS ABANDONED BY THAT WOMAN.
PISS ME OFF HOW HYESUNG'S SACRIFICES BEING BRUSHED ASIDE CUH. HIS FEELINGS TOO SINCE HE DIDN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE WOMAN WHO LEFT HIM BUT THEN FIND OUT HIS SON AND HUSBAND ARE MEETING WITH HER??? BEHIND HIS SKINNY BUBBLE BUTTED BACK???
Calm the fuck down, y'all work up for what? They all gonna make up the next chapter anyway
So? I can't react? People are acting like Byul isn't literally 17 almost an adult cuh. Has he not developed his frontal lobe yet? In those 17 years not once that he think even if he was born out of an accident, and his mom went through the struggle of him being born, he was still raised by both his parents with love and care? Will he really let the problematic past of his parents overshadow the fact that 17 whole years he was raised in a complete happy household? Over a conversation he overhead too, you've gotta be kidding me. How could you be so privileged and still find a problem for yourself, the victim mentality will not sit with me.
Ok? And then he himself admit that he hurts hyesung's feelings in the same chapter so why are we mad here?
ok calm down- let me clarify something:
this part that you said:
"Isn't he fucking old enough to realize that instead of being like "oh my mommy didn't want me fucking years ago" BOOHOO I WOULDN'T WANT HIM NOW. After Hyesung stayed because he didn't want to do to Byul what his mother did to him. He fucking panicked when Hyesung found out so it means that HE KNEW HIS MOM WAS ABANDONED BY THAT WOMAN."
I didn't say "Byul doesn't know that hyesung's mom abandoned hyesung" what I wanted to say was "Byul don't know how much Hyesung was affected negativity because he was abandoned by his mom", Byul knows that his mom was abandoned PERIOD nothing else. that's what i ment when I said "Byul doesn't know anything" (he doesn't know what happened in "love is an illusion" all the bad stuff that hyesung encountered)
Also age shouldn't be a basis of how someone can be hurt about something- while age can be useful to tell how mature someone can be cuz of how old they are to live and experience thing in life, being "17 basically an adult" don't mean you become mature instantly. (Heck I myself can vouch that some people act more mature or immature but who am I to judge? that's way to stereotypical, that's why I always ask "why did they act that way?". It may not be how "you" think but that's how "I" think.)
Even if for you it's such a little thing to feel sad about, overthink, or even hold deeply, it doesn't mean it's "that little" for Byul, he is not you. I mean come on he kept that feeling for yeaaars, bottling up feeling and thoughts that's been kept for years can burst on impulse.
Again as I've said before, what Byul did was WRONG in soo many levels but it was a normal reaction regarding his perspective, not ours or your perspective. In addition it doesn't have anything to do with him being Asian, and as far as I see it there house hold sort of lean more on a western like family, if you're basing on stereotypes- his family is has more of a western vibe to it seeing how he was raise, his dad's a musician his mom isn't strict- (I can tell, I myself is Asian)
soo your whole "Not fit for Asian house" is basically irrelevant
also not to be that person but "The frontal lobe fully develops around age 25"
exactly what I was saying, I hope they fix things up on the next chapters
F I don't know were the rest of my reply on this went i think it was cut, or idk if the rest of y'all can see it but I also said;
Byul didn't think of himself as a victim, In fact he himself knew right after what he did was wrong and felt soo bad for it. He cried FOR HIS MOM not for himself, cuz even with his own feelings, he knew that the one who've been wronged was Hyesung, his mom. (he knows his mom's the victim)
Am I the only one here on the nutral side-
(meaning I ain't mad of any of them)
in my perspective to break it down:
(feel free to just listen to me rant)
hyesung was very mad that both of them kept that secret from him for sooo long. that secret was not soo simple too, it was regarding his mother that abandoned him, leaving him to go through all thos hard times(i will not list all that there's too many)(he had every right to be mad)
Byul on the othe hand, was shocked his Mom found out that he was talking with his grandma, leading him to panic and answer his mom impulsively. while his response was said impulsively I think it also had something to do with how he also felt like he too was at some point abandoned.
WAIT DON'T COME FROM ME LET ME EXPLAIN-
Yes, Hyesung did came back and all them became a happy family and soo and soo-
BUT for the love of god stop pretending that y'all would shrug something off like that, saying something like "oh if I were byul i wouldn't talk to my mother like that, like even though hyesung did abandoned him as a baby he still came back". HECK Byul found out how "he wasn't wanted as a baby", overhearing his parent's conversation when he was a TODDLER. That would traumatize me too-
plus to this day he still didn't know why and didn't even asked his parents about it cuz he was too afraid of confrontation, and probably thinks be doesn't need confrontation cuz of what he said- and i quote him saying "even though he thought about getting rid of me, I don't hate him at all."
AGAIN, It was VERY Bad that he kept that secret from hyesung, but on his perspective his parents kept secrets from him too and at some point he was left behind too, making him think it's unfair that hyesung can get mad at his Grandma, while he kept it to himself that he felt abandoned by his mother at some period of time too. (AGAIN YES I KNOW HE CAME BACK BUT THAT'S NOT THE POINTT)
I know for a fact that some of yall will again say "oh but if only Byul knew what his mom had been through all those years, then he'll probably be more greatful" THAT'S THE POINT, BYUL DOESN'T KNOW ANYTHING THAT'S WHY HE ANSWERED HIS MOM LIKE THAT. It's the most Human teenage kid's reaction to something like that, and that what i like about it-
what did y'all expect him to be a perfect goodboy mc character with no flaws, setbacks and problems? that's a boring story, give me drama, setbacks, character development, and complicated characters, THAT'S LIKE THE BASICS OF MAKING A STORRY! (I personally like more angst and make it slow burn into a happy ending when it comes to stories-)
IN CONCLUSION, Both Hyesung and Byul's reactions are valid but through all this I think Hyesung was the most affected on in this situation, I hope they figure things out on the next chapter.
ps. WTF WAS THAT KISSS THAT WAS SUCH A BAD TIMING ヘ（。□°）ヘ