Yeah but it still doesn’t change what happened. He did abandon him when he was born. That leaves trauma to the kid
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That time happened when byul was a newborn. He doesn’t remember anything so how come there will be trauma? If you said he feel disappointed or what then yes but still not justify what he did to hyesung
Its so sad and realistic thou cause Byul is a teenager with everything so he believes his struggles to be the worst of the worst without truly understanding the magnitude of trauma and wrongdoing Hyesung's mother has caused. (+fuck Dojin, he could die in a ditch(jk lol))
Sure technically he did abandon Byul but he left for 2 months after he gave birth. Byul doesn’t remember and wouldn’t even know if he did not overhear his parents talking about it. Hyesung never made Byul feel unwanted. That’s disgustingly incomparable to grandma leaving Hyesung for all his childhood to her ex-husband who she’s very much AWARE that is an abuser.
Like i too learned that i was an accidental kid pretty early on in my childhood, and i learned that my existence fucked up my mom’s plans (they were poor af) and that she planned to abort me but didn’t in the end. Never in my life did i thought that she “abandoned” me or that i’m disappointed in her for thinking that way. I’m actually more proud of her for surviving while still raising me as a good mother.
That’s all the more reason why i can’t empathize with Byul choosing to connect with grandma. Because my mom is the most important person to me, and i can’t for the life of me imagine cozying up with someone who i KNOW hurt my mom so deeply, even if there’s a good reason for it. My loyalty is with my mom, period.
Bro- im trying hard not to cry
Byul shouldn't have said that, hyesung, really tried to do his best after all the trauma