idk about you but this isn't me blaming a woman for leaving their abusive partner, and obviously the said abusive partner is the main culprit in it all. but this is me being disappointed with a MOTHER FOR LEAVING HER CHILD WITH THAT SAID ABUSIVE PARTNER?!? how can you even compare the two situations when clearly hyesung was abused? hyesung left byul not because he was selfish, but because he was baby trapped and didn't want the responsibility (obv, he came around to it. but did his mother take responsibility for leaving him with her abusive husband??)
Oh pls. Hyesung was hesitate at first but decided to leave bc dojin promised he'll take care of byul & he came back not even a year. He had a breakdown bc he doesn't want to be like his mother. his mom on the other hand, *LEFT* him with an *ABUSER* *KNOWINGLY* for more than 10YEARS. Hyesung had to dropped out off school, had to work his ass off, got rap£d, pregnant when he was 19 without any education, without knowing his own gender & got blamed by the same mother who left him bc he didn't look for her when she even told him *I can't let my new man know I had a son* and?? What are u doing right now? Living a life with your son in law money. She's a secondary abuser. Don't defend a woman like her lmao
no one is hating on her for leaving the abuser, leaving hyesung's dad was the right choice. But she is not fully innocent here and pls let's not pretend that she is.
She's a shit person bc when she escaped, instead of taking her kid with her, she selfishly left him with a person who she CLEARLY KNEW would hurt and abuse her child. Once she was in a better situation with a loving new family, she didn't try to help hyesung get out of that shit hole at all.
She clearly told him she wanted to abandon him because he was a hinderance to her in her new life and she didn't want to come clean to her new partner about having a son so she just abandoned him bc that was most beneficial for her. She didn't even try to include hyesung in her new life, who knows, maybe her new man would have accepted her bringing hyesung along. Take in mind that her new family ended up cutting contact with her because they found out that she not only hid a secret child from them but also completely abandoned him heartlessly for basically his whole life.
She's been living off of Dojin for 17 years now behind hyesung's back and she abandoned him like 30 years ago. If she truly cared about him don't you think she would have made a REAL effort to reconnect with him in those 30 years??? She doesn't have to because she's being taken care of and financially stable now because of Dojin. She just leeches off of whoever she can and only cares about herself.
Bro literally, it's not the same at all.
Hyesung didn't want the baby to begin with because let's remember that he had basically just MET DOJIN WHEN HE GOT PREGNANT. And he was also struggling with his identity because he didn't want to be an omega.
Hyesung left Byul with a stable and present father who provided byul with a safe environment and a loving family. Hyesung's mom abandoned her kid with an abusive fuck who beat the shit out of them and demeaned them 24/7. Let's also not forget that he was creepy asf bc he would make weird comments to hyesung about how he looked like his mom and he liked it.....
You just can't defent her when she knowingly did all this bullshit bro. It's not fair to make her the blameless victim when she isnt
You have to have the same emotional intelligence of a 16 year old high school girl to say "Stop hating" to people
Nah, its called having empathy and letting people make their own choices :D... I dont talk to my mother but am I gonna stop my kids from having a relationship with her? No.. because they can make that choice themselves and make a CHOICE on whether or not they want to associate with her... same thing with this story... hyesung is within his right to be upset but he has no right to stop byul.... so stop hating :3
Im mainly trying to defend byul and his choices. Not really the mom because I know her part in hyesungs life but at the end of the day its byuls choice on whether or not he wants to associate with her. And even if the situations are different it doesn't change the fact that hyesung still abandoned byul so hyesung is a lil hypocritical for getting mad when he did the same thing
Im not making her into a blameless victim.... ik shes a shit mom but putting all the hate on her and not hyesungs father is just crazy when the father and dojin are the real villians.... also i dont blame hyesungs mom for not really wanting him because rape or dv victims can sometimes hate their own children because they're related to the abuser
The point is he's not doing the same thing his mom did to him lol that's the point difference & huge difference. Both situation & decision were completely made due to a complete different reason & byul at his age, would've & should've understand his mother better if he asked his mother side of story. But he's not, bc he's scared so he rather to know his *pitiful* grandma side of story & blame his mother.
If you want to defend byul, sure, whatever, he's young & don't know anything. But when he said he knew his grandma side of story (what story lol " grandma left him with OUR ABUSER FOR 10YEARS bc I want to search for my own happiness, but if I bring him, he'll hindered me to find one. So I left him. And he didn't even search for me after he grows up" BS) but acted like he knew his mother's story, SO, he indeed disrespect hyesung as a mother who loved him so much more than as someone who never got loved by their own mother. Byul admitted it too he's wrong lol
See how u have more dislikes than likes?
(づ￣ ³￣)づ you act like I look for validation from strangers... I dont... this is a comment section where I commented my opinion... you can either agree or disagree but your comment wont be in my mind after I read another manga
He admitted his behavior and tone of voice was wrong but its up to him on whether or not he choice to speak with his grandma... both hyesung and his mother didnt have too many choices so idk why its wrong for me to want byul to have the choice to associate with his grandmom... hyesung is right to be upset but he doesn't have the right to stop his kid from seeing his grandma
But you also have to understand how painful it must be to see your kid defending and wanting to be with the person who's the cause of all the suffering you had to go through all of your youth. I feel like Hyesung does have the right to ask Byul not to associate with her bc what she did wasn't just some light stuff he can overlook If I was hyesung I would be seethinggggggg
Byul can chose what to do in the end but if I was in his shoes I wouldn't, in the right conscience, keep meeting up with the person who made my mom's life so miserable.
Hyesung's dad is a piece of shit but cutting him off didn't hurt hyesung nearly as much as his mom because hyesung never expected anything from his abusive ass. He knew he was shit and that he would never change. On the other hand, Hyesung expected the world from him mom and she completely shattered all of the hope he had for her.
Dojin, hyesung's dad, and hyesung's mom are the villains. You can't say dojin is a bad person for still talking to the mom and then turn around and say the mom isn't as bad as them Dojin is a bad person bc he is associating himself with ANOTHER piece of shit
His grandma is a garbage & an abuser enabler
Yeah ur opinion sucked
You act like I care about what you think? :3
That's up for byul to find out
People unintentionally hurt others all the time. Byul is older enough to understand hyesung left him as a baby and still loves him so i think hyesung should tell byul why he hates his mother... hes within his right to be mad but telling byul not to associate with someone without even explain to them what happened in the past makes no sense. Also Dojin is bad, if not worse than the mom because he baby trapped hyesung bro.... hyesungs mom may have abandoned hyesung but I consider dojins actions to be far worse
Ppl need to chill out on hating byul or the grandmother... the main people that are the issue is hyesungs dad and dojin... nobody else. Now was hyesungs mom right for abandoning her child? No, but yall love to hate on women who are just trying to survive and escape DV situations. Let's not also forget hyesung abandoned byul... he obviously came back but that doesn't change the fact that he did the same thing his mother did.... hyesung is within his right to not talk to his mother but byul is within his right to know his grandmother and make the decision to talk to her or not on his own terms