I relate super hard to the anxious style that Andrew has. The fear of commitment, close relationships, scared about being a virgin and wanting to be perfect at every single thing, the pressure. I was super uncomfortable reading it because I understood him so well. Edit: to add it was wrong for Andrew to lie and lead on Nathan btw when he wanted the relationship to progress. He's not a saint but we can't directly compare the actions of both because Nathan was so much worse. And overall.. FUCK NATHAN!! SERIOUSLY. Yes, he's not responsible to help him through internalized homophobia or his insecurities or abandonment. But if you REALLY liked him you wouldn't have spoken so harshly and been such a prick. I understood you hurt and you both drew blood but one cut deeper than the other. As the older person you'd assume at least more emotional maturity wouldn't you? Also letting that creepy ass art dude bring Andrew when it was obvious he was FORCING HIMSELF into a threesome and obviously disgusted and terrified. What the fuck is wrong with you? Like is it hard to be a decent nice person and y'know, stopped him? Would you really let him go through something so traumatic being fully aware of it? You can't be se serious that going a few weeks without sex is the end of the fucking world. Or that sex is worth traumatizing someone.
Anyway if you truly liked him, being a relationship, it will never be perfect. No one will be perfect ever. We all have our insecurities. Our pros and cons. And we HAVE TO be willing to accommodate for them and WORK through them in a relationship. It's not sunshine and rainbows and perfect chemistry!! The flame eventually simmers down, still alive but it's fucking there!! I won't say Nathan is a super villain. He isn't. He's an emotionally constipated DOUCHEBAG! Mature man! Get it together! You're fucking 27 years old. Oh my god. That's why you keep getting dumped. And he doesn't even realize it. Even when his own friends and acquaintances point it out. You didn't fight for the relationship? The person didn't feel loved or felt only used? LOOK WITHIN YOURSELF. THERE'S A DENOMINATOR IN COMMON AND IT'S MOT THEM! IT'S Y O U! Seek within yourself why everything has to be logical and a mathematics equation. Think with your fucking heart not your mind or your penis. Anyway I believe they can get through this and be the happy couple they are in the specials/extras. But there's A LOT to work through.
I relate super hard to the anxious style that Andrew has. The fear of commitment, close relationships, scared about being a virgin and wanting to be perfect at every single thing, the pressure. I was super uncomfortable reading it because I understood him so well. Edit: to add it was wrong for Andrew to lie and lead on Nathan btw when he wanted the relationship to progress. He's not a saint but we can't directly compare the actions of both because Nathan was so much worse. And overall.. FUCK NATHAN!! SERIOUSLY. Yes, he's not responsible to help him through internalized homophobia or his insecurities or abandonment. But if you REALLY liked him you wouldn't have spoken so harshly and been such a prick. I understood you hurt and you both drew blood but one cut deeper than the other. As the older person you'd assume at least more emotional maturity wouldn't you? Also letting that creepy ass art dude bring Andrew when it was obvious he was FORCING HIMSELF into a threesome and obviously disgusted and terrified. What the fuck is wrong with you? Like is it hard to be a decent nice person and y'know, stopped him? Would you really let him go through something so traumatic being fully aware of it? You can't be se serious that going a few weeks without sex is the end of the fucking world. Or that sex is worth traumatizing someone.
Anyway if you truly liked him, being a relationship, it will never be perfect. No one will be perfect ever. We all have our insecurities. Our pros and cons. And we HAVE TO be willing to accommodate for them and WORK through them in a relationship. It's not sunshine and rainbows and perfect chemistry!! The flame eventually simmers down, still alive but it's fucking there!! I won't say Nathan is a super villain. He isn't. He's an emotionally constipated DOUCHEBAG! Mature man! Get it together! You're fucking 27 years old. Oh my god. That's why you keep getting dumped. And he doesn't even realize it. Even when his own friends and acquaintances point it out. You didn't fight for the relationship? The person didn't feel loved or felt only used? LOOK WITHIN YOURSELF. THERE'S A DENOMINATOR IN COMMON AND IT'S MOT THEM! IT'S Y O U! Seek within yourself why everything has to be logical and a mathematics equation. Think with your fucking heart not your mind or your penis. Anyway I believe they can get through this and be the happy couple they are in the specials/extras. But there's A LOT to work through.