did you forget that hye sung was raped and got pregnant against his will? then he was corned into signing the contract to carry to term. How can you blame him for leaving that situation initially? plus Heesoo was meddling as well.
Ok FINE!!! BUT Dojin could give her/arrange a TINY house for her not a whole house with cbackyard. IF its just like charity for him.
Arrange staff (they have alot) to provide financial support or something until she finds jobs.
She could still work.
BUT NO Dojin talks and provides her directly.
HE better not be cheating.
That's not it...She was a victim of Hyesung's father but that doesn't automatically turn her into a saint and into a good person. It doesn't excuse any of her actions & the neglect and abandonment of her kid.
He WAS abusive to both HER AND HYESUNG. Plus, If your husband is abusive and violent, what makes you think he won't take it out on your kid the second you leave?? Your CHILD BECOMES THE MAIN TARGET NOW. Abusers don't just magically reform the second their main victim leaves...She clearly knew it would happen, that's why she apologized to hyesung when she left. And guess what, it did. There was also some sexual abuse to hyesung implied on his part when he talked creepily about how hyesung looked like his mom.
All the abuse that she experienced, hyesung did as well. And Hyesung got the short end of the stick because his mom got to abandon him and restart in life, forgetting about him on purpose. Hyesung meanwhile had to live in a shit hole that was so miserable he had to leave and fend for himself as a teen. He had to drop out of school and struggle to survive by himself. His mom got in a financially stable and healthy position but she still made absolutely no effort to help her kid. She only reached out once she founf out hyesung married into money, it was out of convenience. Once her family found out she was trash they left her and she once again crawled back to Dojin and played the victim card out of convenience.
And she got dropped by her new family because they found out that she was a shit person. That not only did she hide her secret son for years, but she abandoned him with a violent abuser and NEVER tried to help him after. She was selfish and thought of hyesung as a hinderance to her. If she truly cared she would have brought him with her when she left, the alpha was disgusted by the fact she abandoned her kid and that's why they divorced her.
It's been 30 years since she abandoned her kid...how do you excuse this???? She hadn't seen hyesung for like 15 years and she only reappeared when she saw pics of him with dojin. Then she didn't talk to him up until it was convenient to her again when her family left her. Another 17 years passed, and she hasn't reached out to him yet because she doesn't have to, SHE HAS NO NEED BECAUSE DOJIN IS ALREADY PROVIDING FOR HER.
Now she's gonna reach out again because she's gonna see how dojin is gonna be reluctant to her her now because of hyesung. She's gonna play the victim card again and lie about loving hyesung because it's gonna be convenient for her again. She doesn;t want to lose her mansion or her money...
Nah but fr, how is she a good person if in the 30 something years since she abandoned hyesung she's only seen him once.... if she wanted to she would have...no excuses
No one is claiming her to be a good person or excusing what she did. You also can’t forget that she was very young when she met and married Hyesungs father. She probably never reached out again after that first time because Hyesung said he never wanted to see or hear from her again. She also reached out to him before her family left her. They found out about it after that first time.How long do you think a person should be punished for mistakes of their pasts? Hyesung never gave her the opportunity to even talk to him or explain what lead her to make the decision she made. He has no idea what his father what making her do. Nobody is without fault.
She told Hyesung that she tried to reach out once but her dad told her that hyesung was mad at her. But bro, hyesung was 5 years old. Why would she take her abuser's words as the truth??
And even if it was true that Hyesung was mad, why would she be shocked her child is upset at her for abandoning him and lying about coming back for him?? If she truly wanted to see him again she would have tried harder. Plus, the dad wasn't stopping her from doing anything??? She had control of her own life and married a stable alpha who had money and who loved her. If she wanted hyesung back she could have easily filed for custody and won hyesung off of her bum ass father.
Hyesung did let her explain herself and all she did was say stuff that Hyesung already knew and blame hyesung for everything. After that, he completely cut her off because her explanation was bullshit. He had held on hope that there was another reason she left him but there wasn't. It really was just because he was a hinderance to her in her new life. Plus, it had been 15 years of no contact, she lost her chance.
Just because so much time has passed doesn't mean that your mistakes should be forgiven. It's been 30 years since she left him. If in those 30 years she only made an effort to see him once when he was 5, then that proves she didn't care about him at all.
He decided to sign that contract himself. He could’ve had an abortion but chose not to. I also don’t consider what happened between them to be rape. They were both influenced by Hyesungs pheromones and the medicine that they had didn’t work for him. I highly doubt Dojin was purposely trying to impregnate Hyesung since the likelihood of that happening was practically zero since he was a recessive omega, which is the main reason other both decided to go through with the pregnancy. They were both to blame for what happened. You also can’t forget that Dojin barely ever spent any time around omegas because he hated omegas. Hyesung and Dojin also bonded very quickly. Dojin also saved Hyesung several times from some pretty bad situations. Y’all are acting like Dojin is evil incarnate and absolving Hyesung of any responsibility for the things that have happened.
He was her abuser. He mentally and physically abused her for years. If he told her Hyesung said he didn’t want to see her she was probably fearful of what he would do if she pushed it. Even if she did try to file for custody, how likely do you think the courts would be to give custody to an omega when in verses like this omegas are looked down on. I mean even when Hyesung is a grown, they’re still fighting for omega rights.
She didn’t seem shocked he was mad. How much could you possibly explain to a person who won’t even open the door or speak to you face to face. Hyesung was intent on staying mad and not listening to a word his mother said because he had already made up his mind a long time ago and was not going to change it.
We’re just going to have to agree to disagree. All I’ll say is that your life experiences have an impact on how you react to things. My experiences with my biological parents closely resemble Hyesungs experiences with his parents and I’ll leave it at that.
Nah, he really was trying to impregnate him. The instance he got pregnant happened when Hyesung was in heat but all of the times after that were just Dojin trying to baby trap him. Remember he stopped him from leaving and forced himself onto him? He was jealous hyesung was gonna move in with his friend and he was deliberately trying to baby trap him to keep him tied to him. That's why hyesung was sobbing and trying to leave the house after the fact.
Let's also not look over the fact that this was fucked up
The fact that the chance of him getting pregnant was low doesn't change the fact Dojin was still trying to aim for that
But if she was truly fearful of what he would do to hyesung if she pushed it then she would have taken him with her from the start. I really don't think the dad would have given a shit. He ain't care when she left and as soon as hyesung left the house he moved on and formed another family. Hyesung also said she met with him multiple times to settle the divorce and not once did she ask to see him. She got flustered and was like oh...uhh..I didn't have the courage to see your face. Bc if she did she would have just felt guilty bc she was gonna end up leaving him again in the end
She had made up her mind already that she wanted to live with her new family and hyesung was never a part of that picture, ever. And she married an alpha with influence. This would have given her the leverage to fight in court. She had more than enough to prove that only she could give a safe environment to hyesung. Hyesung's dad was an abusive bum with no money and nothing to his name.
The grandma also resembles my own relative and that's why I have no empathy towards her at all. Kids aren't just something that you can drop off and forget whenever you want to restart your life. And if you decide to do that, you're not entitled to be forgiven once you decide you finally want to come back. You made the choice to cut them off on your own, you were prepared to deal with the consequences when you abandoned them like that. It's unfair to expect them to be forgiven.
I can see why you feel that way but I really don't agree at all. Agree to disagree fr
People saying Hyesung should divorce Dojin and leave Byul for this are completely unhinged. Do y’all also think Byul should cut off Hyesung because he basically abandoned him too and kept it a secret. Yeah he came back but that doesn’t make it any less hurtful. Also, the main reason Dojin kept in contact with Hyesung mother is because she probably would’ve ended up dead considering her second husband and children etc left her because of her past. Yes, she made a mistake in abandoning Hyesung because she was being horribly abused by her husband a basics being sex trafficked, but everyone makes mistakes. She probably thought Hyesung would be okay with his father because when she left he hasn’t really abused Hyesung yet. No one is perfect, not Hyesung, who was willing to initially sell his child to Dojin and actually left him for a few months, not Dojin for keeping his contact with the mom a secret and not Byul, because he’s still a kid who’s allowed to make mistakes. Ffs