This guy is a major red flag, plus a narcissistic groomer. The FL was only 18 when they met, which means she was 17 in Korean age. Who knew better at 17? I know I didn’t — I was naive and clueless at 18. He saw a young, naive 18-year-old and knew she’d be easy to manipulate. I honestly think he stayed because she was a virgin and he liked the thrill of teaching her everything and molding her to his preferences. He’s 10 years older and married — he knew better than to take advantage of a young, naive poor girl. I just hope the FL moves on, finds someone better, and takes time to heal. I also hope his red flag ass cries over her and sinks in his own sorrow.
This guy is a major red flag, plus a narcissistic groomer. The FL was only 18 when they met, which means she was 17 in Korean age. Who knew better at 17? I know I didn’t — I was naive and clueless at 18. He saw a young, naive 18-year-old and knew she’d be easy to manipulate. I honestly think he stayed because she was a virgin and he liked the thrill of teaching her everything and molding her to his preferences. He’s 10 years older and married — he knew better than to take advantage of a young, naive poor girl. I just hope the FL moves on, finds someone better, and takes time to heal. I also hope his red flag ass cries over her and sinks in his own sorrow.