I love Hyesung but let's not brush over it. He fully wanted nothing to do with Byul. He came back and even left again. That's how he found out he had bonded with Dojin cause he tried sleeping with someone else. Hyesung showers him with love now but it took so much to get there. He genuinely wanted to get rid of Byul. He even thought of abortion.
but in the end he left when he was a baby, he ended up coming back and supports him unlike his mom who doesn’t deserve anything from byul nor dojin
but in the end he left when he was a baby, he ended up coming back and full supports him unlike his mom who deadass abandoned him and he had to live without his mother, (byul doesnt) but im not tryna invalidate his feelings i just feel like u cant rlly compare hyesung to his mom plus she doesn’t deserve anything from byul nor dojin**
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He got baby trapped he didn't want this baby and was basically coerced to have it. I'm sorry but Hyesung is the victim there.
They had an agreement at some point that he could give birth to it and then leave. But the bond was forced and him and he had to stay.
Imagine he never fell in love with his husband ?
Forced to be pregnant, forced to give birth (a traumatic birth btw) forced to bond with a guy he hate ? His life would be hell.
I'm not blaming Hyesung, but I also think Byul has a right to feel the way he does. Byul probably doesn't even know the whole story but if someone were to know that their parent hated them that much no matter the reason they might feel anger towards them or feel sad.
Yeah, but my point is that Byul feeling anger or sadness towards the way Hyesung treated him when he was born is valid.
byul can feel sad/angry, & that still doesn't justify him being an absolutely, plainly wrong hypocrite. if byul doesn't know the whole story, then who was he to tell hyesung he didn't even want to hear the grandmother's story?
+ byul only knew hyesung didn't want him because he overheard a drunken conversation between adults. ever since hyesung came back & stayed, he has only ever shown byul love & has always been the one to stand the firmest behind byul's back. in all the recent events where everyone had their backs turned to byul, hyesung was the one who protected him. even if he knew hyesung didn't want him in the beginning, were the last 15+ years of hyesung protecting him suddenly all useless j because he didn't want him in the beginning due to him being a product of rape when he was incredibly vulnerable & still a child himself?
again, while byul can feel a type of way about being an unwanted child, it doesn't justify his actions, esp. because his actions are primarily those of a stupid fucking kid throwing a god damn tantrum while he's stressed against the only person they feel who they can hurt without suffering actually bad consequences because he was loved & spoiled by hyesung
also, you say you're not blaming hyesung, yet everything about this is blaming an abused & vulnerable rape victim for initially not wanting a rapist's child. "let's not brush over it" & no one is - because everyone understands where hyesung had come from. it feels like YOU'RE brushing over all of the facts why hyesung didn't want a child in the first place. it's not BYUL he didn't want, it was A RAPIST'S CHILD he didn't want.
you say "it took so much to get there" as if it was hyesung's fault he got raped, baby trapped, & then hidden & lied to by dojin's friend (the beta, i forgot his name atp) that he wasn't needed. you say "he tried sleeping with someone else" as if he wasn't in a position where he was terrified shitless & cornered without any autonomy/reason for living
ntm all of these happened but he was only not there for only a month or a few more at most. "hyesung showers him with love now" he has done so for the last 15 years, was that not enough to prove how much he's changed & loves byul?
Hate is a strong word. Hyesung never hated byul in the first place. It was the circumstances. Did we even read the same story? Knowing that you're just an alpha wannabe and got harassed then pregnant? He was too damn unstable to even think of having a baby, that is why he didn't want it to push through, but then there's dojin who wanted a child so they had an agreement. Yes, byul's feeling was valid but he doesn't have the right to say those words to hyesung especially asking if hyesung ever tried to listen to his mother's side of the story? Isn't byul doing the same thing? He doesn't know the whole thing but spitting those word was so damn foul and him owning it, was good thing but he should hold accountable for whatever the aftermath of these scene
"Abandoned" IT WAS LIKE A MONTH. Maybe not even that. He was also too young to even remember and it virtually had zero impact on his life (Unlike Hyesung who had to drop out of school ans struggle just to live with no mother OR father). Byul doesn't know the damn meaning to Abandoned mental.is like 3 weeks old baby can't even remember anything bruh. what does he know about being abandoned? cuz from the moment his brain are able to start remembering shit, both of his parents are ALWAYS with him, and ALWAYS smothers him with love.