This whole situation sends the wrong message. It's saying that if you're hurt, it’s okay to let go of your dignity and self-respect just for the sake of closure. But that’s not real closure. Self-respect should come first, and Sooae’s behavior here, kissing him to get answers, doesn’t reflect that. She’s letting him off too easily, and the readers who don’t question it are missing a critical point: boundaries matter, and if we ignore them, we end up in unhealthy patterns of behavior.
This whole situation sends the wrong message. It's saying that if you're hurt, it’s okay to let go of your dignity and self-respect just for the sake of closure. But that’s not real closure. Self-respect should come first, and Sooae’s behavior here, kissing him to get answers, doesn’t reflect that. She’s letting him off too easily, and the readers who don’t question it are missing a critical point: boundaries matter, and if we ignore them, we end up in unhealthy patterns of behavior.