what an interesting prompt lol — i’m not into polyamory but I definitely wouldn’t revert them back into one person. they all came from one, & are still part of my lover. the attention sounds difficult but nice, so unless the clones desired go back into one body, I would keep the many versions of my lover. (you know what they say, “to have & to hold in sickness & in health”) lol
id probably see what the clones themselves want. i feel like its not rlly my decision to make and id probably feel guilty if i did it without knowing if thats what they also wanted.
but in the case where they don't mind any..., i think i lean towards reverting them back to one person. im not into poly nor do i know what its like but i think relationships generally just take so much effort, even with one person. so unless these clones are like the perfect no flaw partners ever i think i'd get drained overtime. i also have a bit of a distant/avoidant personality when it comes to super clingy people so idk if i could handle 2. this also depends on how long ive been with the clones though
Yeah handling them, spending time, that’s a whole 24 hour job. I forgot to mention it would be like 10 clones of the lover. Perhaps that would’ve made it harder to answer?
Also they all don’t have the same thoughts. They don’t believe all of them are the same, at least not mentally or in mind. So yes, they wouldn’t want to revert but they think your words are the majority vote.
Also I forgot to mention that it would be 10 of them clones . Guess that would’ve made it an easy choice for you, to revert ASAP. When I say partner, I mean someone who has been with you pretty much your whole life.
This poly is just you having multiple partners from one that are loyal to you, it’s not the one where your partners have partners, and their partners have partners, not open relationship either, etc.
Ugh I’ll do better on my questions next time. Your comment made me realize I missed a lot and the other user replying here.
I get you. It’s a whole lot to handle and if I can’t even put effort into cooking, forget 10 lovers
oh my gosh 10?? that's a whole orgy and dw i liked ur question actually i was gonna steal it and ask my friends later lol
okay ten clones im definitely reverting them back to one person lmao but that just made the scenerio funnier. im imagining road trips. would we rent a school bus? and they all better pay rent cuz idk where we are gonna be living but its gonna be expensive for sure. and no bathroom hogging
Forget that imagine children with them LMAO (unless same sex and agree on adopting). Need two buses if so.
Glad to hear this question is being spread. And hell yea, if you had no choice to revert, dw all of them would have their own jobs. You can make some of them stay home and look after the kids or something. Six of them working and bringing money to the house!!
If it takes you hours to clean the whole house, a few of them can clean it up within an hour. I’m gonna have to ask this same question later but with more detail, cause I missed some. Thanks for the responses, helped my dumb ass
Do they split by choice? Or does it just happen out of the blue? I think I would revert them back to normal. If they're my most beloved partner, it's because I love them for who they are rather than all the people they could be.
From their perspective, I would imagine it would be difficult to suddenly be competing with different versions of yourself to see who gets the partner you've never had to fight over.
If they split by choice somehow, I'd leave them as is until they sort out exactly what they want. Did they separate into multiple personalities because they thought their one self wasn't enough? Did they do it because they struggle to communicate their emotions? If that were the case, I'd seriously sit down with every one of them and talk through it. I don't want my one and only partner to split themself into pieces.
They split due to a mix of mental health/insecurity maybe and kind of out of the blue because it’s not like your partner believed this could happen.
Some of them get along. Some of them don’t, the ones that don’t get along are the insecure ones. The ones that get along is the personality and selves that your partner would happily show to you and the public. The insecure ones are the one that hide themselves, are clingy and spies, but struggles to directly tell you.
The ones hanging out by themselves and keeping to self mostly are the one who are in between healthy and insecure, they don’t know what to do about it and can become selfish.
The best answer is the lack of emotional regulation. It caused a spiral somewhere within them and caused the split. It’s like different aspects of your lover, there is this one BL where the partner of the guy splits into multiple bodies…and the guy has to figure out which one is fake, but turns out all of them are very real and he just had to accept them, talk, etc.
That's exactly how I would imagine it as well.
In that case, I wouldn't revert them back right away. Considering there is a reason it ultimately happened, I'd let them be separated for as long as they need. Over that time, I could understand each part of them better until they are ready to comine it all back into one.
Let’s just say you aren’t a poly person maybe or you can’t handle many at once (changeable). Your most important partner in crime who is your lover, your close friend, splits into clones. They still love you, they have different personalities you have never seen from your partner. But everything they love, their hobbies, are similar, their looks as well. They are extremely loyal, but can fight over you, on who gets to sleep with you tonight, etc. Some of them group up to spy on you when at work while the other clones work, to see if you are anywhere besides work. It’s complicated for you.
One day, you have a chance to revert the clones back into one person. Or the choice to not use it.
What would you do?
I wanna see something.