but like, why is it a common thing (if not a requirement) in romance that the fl is blind to the most obvious signs that the ml is head over heels for her.
and don't tell me "bc she's insecure and doesn't think she deserves him"
I have been the last one picked for my whole, have never been confessed to and in a serious relationship, even in friendships ppl don't really like me bc I'm autistic and for some reason i only know neurotypical ppl that instinctively feel there's something wrong with me and I'm still able to see when someone is obviously attracted to me.
but like, why is it a common thing (if not a requirement) in romance that the fl is blind to the most obvious signs that the ml is head over heels for her.
and don't tell me "bc she's insecure and doesn't think she deserves him"
I have been the last one picked for my whole, have never been confessed to and in a serious relationship, even in friendships ppl don't really like me bc I'm autistic and for some reason i only know neurotypical ppl that instinctively feel there's something wrong with me and I'm still able to see when someone is obviously attracted to me.