It's not always that, at least not for everyone. I have found myself in situations where i can get annoyed and angry cause i just build up or hole up too many emotions without expressing them or even when i express them and i see no changes about stuff bothering me, i feel like I'm not being heard by other individual and it frustrates me to the point of one day just exploding. And I'm talking about my feelings being thrown under the bus multiple times about the same things again again not just them being violated once. So with all that i can say personally i know how to express myself but when the other person doesn't listen or doesn't want to listen and that keeps hurting me, yes that's gonna make me start yelling my feelings out and maybe then they will hear. And then we get called emotional and overactive lmao:)
yeah i get what you mean. not being heard when your express your feelings/concerns countless times is very frustrating and can cause you to explode. which is valid. maybe i just projected on seoan's behaviour just bc it feels and looks too much alike to what i do haha. i just feel like saying hurtful things when you're angry is not the best thing to resolve the issue. and i envy people who can keep calm and think rationally even when they're in a very frustrating scenarios. i've gone through life being called overly sensitive and emotional bc of this behaviour lmao
i feel so connected with chapter 86 so bad not bc i relate to woowon, but with seoan. i see myself in him during the times i was frustrated, angry and anxious. it's a very volatile and toxic behaviour. people like us don't know how to express our concerns kindly. we may have good intentions but somehow choose harsh words to express it. in my case, i go to therapy to fix it. this behaviour is a part of my mental illness and i do think it's the same with seoan. i just hope he continues to go to his therapies to address this. just to clarify, having mental health issues is not an excuse to treat people badly.
(apologies for projecting haha i can't help)