To add to my other deranged comment sometimes words aren't needed to comfort or reassure a sub btw. Communicating with the eyes and body language is a thing that's often clearer to understand than words in overwhelming situations when there's pleasure, pain, etc involved. A verbal and non verbal safe word is essential for safe kink play depending on what you are participating. And people don't learn about bdsm and try it in real life from entertainment like this actually do your research :3
Anyway Takamada just needed to look into Yu's eyes to calm him down and reassure him when he just THOUGHT he wanted it to stop. He didn't verbalize it. He saw the ques and read it. Then reassured him. Switch things up. And it's good he proceeded to check in and give him breaks while also ravaging him. I hope it continues and that he doesn't use the SM to punish himself. Yes, it can help people shed stress and manage anxiety. It definitely can. But it's a delicate line to balance on. And it won't fix their relationship anxieties I hope they communicate soon about them </3
To add to my other deranged comment sometimes words aren't needed to comfort or reassure a sub btw. Communicating with the eyes and body language is a thing that's often clearer to understand than words in overwhelming situations when there's pleasure, pain, etc involved. A verbal and non verbal safe word is essential for safe kink play depending on what you are participating. And people don't learn about bdsm and try it in real life from entertainment like this actually do your research :3
Anyway Takamada just needed to look into Yu's eyes to calm him down and reassure him when he just THOUGHT he wanted it to stop. He didn't verbalize it. He saw the ques and read it. Then reassured him. Switch things up. And it's good he proceeded to check in and give him breaks while also ravaging him. I hope it continues and that he doesn't use the SM to punish himself. Yes, it can help people shed stress and manage anxiety. It definitely can. But it's a delicate line to balance on. And it won't fix their relationship anxieties I hope they communicate soon about them </3