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It's not about loving someone but about the trauma and circumstances they both have. Even if they find someone else, they will not change since they haven't resolved their trauma.
Yeah I think you are right, none of them can be in a relationship rn but being depressed doesn't mean you can't find people you find easier to love and trust even amid the trauma and circumstances. imo, she simply is not the one for him just like he's not the one for her. when they heal, it's better for both to move on and find the right person
loving someone shouldn't be difficult and scary, it should be easy. they are not good for each other and will always feel like shit if they stay in a relationship