I get that he was not in a good place for everything that happened with him. But, now, when she is reaching out again… he doesn’t seem interested in making this work. You know like someone who is in love with the idea of “what could have been if I did this or that then” but are not interested in “I can take a chance and do this and that now and may be it will work” I see nothing but a sense of longing to what could have been not what he can make out if it. And that’s just feels a relationship is dead and over with. He might be interested in saying, “sorry, I did that” but not, “sorry, I did that and may be a chance to make this work again”. Also, the Dohwa part feels unnecessary forced if he is not the endgame. Like a torment for no reason.
I get that he was not in a good place for everything that happened with him. But, now, when she is reaching out again… he doesn’t seem interested in making this work. You know like someone who is in love with the idea of “what could have been if I did this or that then” but are not interested in “I can take a chance and do this and that now and may be it will work” I see nothing but a sense of longing to what could have been not what he can make out if it. And that’s just feels a relationship is dead and over with. He might be interested in saying, “sorry, I did that” but not, “sorry, I did that and may be a chance to make this work again”.
Also, the Dohwa part feels unnecessary forced if he is not the endgame. Like a torment for no reason.