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I agree with you, not everyone's pain are same, so it's not good to compare it, yeah shim suae got hurt , but we have to consider about enhyuck's side too, yeah dohya is good but I won't compare them, both got highlighted by their own personality and pain, just trust the process, and those who are trash talking, grow up
Y’all clearly don’t know how trauma works and that’s really disheartening and sad. Calling him a grown man and a pussy?! HES TRAUMATIZED. I really would like to know how y’all would act at 17 years old when all in ONE day your mother try’s to kill herself and your controlling and horrible dad that caused you to go deaf in one ear tells you, you have to leave with no prior warning and no time to mourn your life. He didn’t fucking say anything to her bc he’d rather her hate him than love him and be miserable without him BC THATS HOW HE FELT ABOUT HER. He probably thought he would never get to see her again bc of how controlling his dad is. His life wasn’t his. The guilt literally is eating him alive. He is terrified of what she thinks of him bc her view is the only one that matters. And bc of how fucked up and dismissive his family is of his feelings he has that out look with any person he trusts. So what it’s been 10 years? People will die at 70 years old without sorting through their feelings and trauma they just shove it down with work or addiction. Let’s be fucking thankful he ain’t a damn alcoholic. I only bring that up because Eunhyeok is a very real person in the world there are so many hurt and broken people like this. We need to have more empathy for people. Now, that doesn’t mean excuse behaviors but have understanding on why a person who you know has been so caring and loving up to that point about why they did what they did? And that’s why y’all ain’t Sue-a she is kind and knows people deep within their hearts and knows that he’s hiding something bc he hasn’t shown her any other reason as to why he’s acting that way.