Question for experienced people

Ngl. One of the first things I told my husband (boyfriend at the time) was that he had a perfect dick. Perfect size and shape. So kinda yea lol

I'm also on the ace spectrum and have actually asked friends about this. Yes, apparently there are people who do think those things!

sorry if this is tmi lol but i just made my boyfriend cum a lil while ago and i kinda get what you're asking cause i used to not get it either. now it's like, i dont have an aversion to dick at all but im also not jumping and cumming at the sight of his dick lol but i do think it's pretty. i like what's unique about it nd i like touching it. i guess i like watching his reactions more yk cause touching him makes me happy but watching him fall apart is what actually gets me horny. as for blowjobs, they're not really my favorite but i also don't hate it, it kinda makes my jaw hurt but it's worth it (ill confess i like eating pussy better tho ). and yeah hand jobs are the same, make my arms hurt but i like making him feel good. don't worry if you don't get it tho, maybe even some allosexual people might feel that way. sex isn't all about liking someone's genitals.

I once had a conversation with some of my friends about this and it kinda solidified that I'm on the ace spectrum lol
Yeah, people do think like that and I don't get it lmfao

Thank you for the genuine reply. The last time I looked at a dick, I was just thinking "let's get this over with." I really thought the guy was super attractive and really liked his personality, but none of that changed how I view sex when we got naked. So for the longest time I thought people were lying about stuff like that. Lol