I think you confused their roles. The Uke (bottom) is the overthinker, the Seme (top) is the confused one
They’re both overthinking
Too is always taking it to another level
"He’s gonna leave me if he knows I like him"
"I’m going to be abandoned like those exes of his"
After they started dating "he doesn’t actually like me" , gets jealous that uke is talking to a girl and smoking with her , seme is always overthinking stuff and jumping into conclusions, he’s confused abt things but not his FEELINGS , he’s aware he likes uke
But what abt uke? Is he sure he likes seme romantically? No, he’s still confused and figuring out his feelings, he’s always worried but he doesn’t jump into conclusions like seme
Tho it could be seen like that too I guess
Their emotions feel very raw and real
That’s how I feel abt this story
Yes top can be insufferable with how’s acting but it’s pretty justified, his feelings are VERY valid, he thinks uke is with him out of pity which is exactly the situation he’s in, and he can’t help but want more, but even when he do get more,he tends to overthink such as the sex part, he thought uke is now just using him
So I think he needs time to adjust and work on his communication and feelings
As for uke,I’m confused abt his feelings for too, I think he’s starting to like him romantically,I mean he already loves him so much, maybe it was romantic feelings since the beginning but he wasn’t aware it was romantic , I just want to see them work it out