MY EXACT THOUGHTS!! I think ppl forget that with A/B/O dynamics there will always be an element of them fighting against nature vs nurture as well as instincts. Even though, I’m not going to completely say that Su-ah didn’t do anything wrong (bc he was led by Juhyeok’s heat to go overboard and SA’ed him), but I absolutely love how the author actually addresses it as exactly that and the fact that he apologized for it. I also will give him grace because it’s hard to control yourself with someone’s compatible pheromones influencing you and I do think that he was led WAYYY too much by his instincts in that moment. I just feel there’s a lot more potential for growth in his character development and a genuine, trusting, consensual bond between them to grow. This is only the beginning of what I feel like will be a great tale of opposites attract and (hopefully) boundaries as well!!
I feel like the reason why people don’t like the main lead is because he’s portrayed as this soft-boy, but quickly becomes sexually assertive around the mc and that’s coming off as a little disingenuous. I’m more lenient on it however because the Omegaverse has always had a personal image versus instincts dub-con thing. Perhaps the author could’ve balanced the soft-boy tropes better with the α/β/Ω sex tropes, but I’m still enjoying the story so far. (Release of ch.6)