is trying to keep the woman you love out of danger irritating? she is in a fucking battlefield of course he is going to be upset about it. Plus he still doesnt know that she didnt really grow up as a noble which is why he is trying so hard to not make her think that being near him is hard and it doesnt suit her
this is gonna come out agressive i dnt really mean it that way i just also dnt like him so far. but how many times has she expressed she doesnt care bout typical duke daughter stuff, how many times has she expressed she'd rather be of help than wait around doing nothing. they could have arranged something if he actually tried to listen and understand her, she's clearly useful as a healer and this is war, investing in her for a bit would have come out 10x more beneficial, instead he's got her sneaking around because he wont give her any choice. i get it, its stressful knowing ur partner could be in danger at any time, but thats exactly how she feels about him, at the very least she's doing something about it to at least make the situation less dangerous for him (again, HEALER) while he just tries to ground her over and over again
He is pissing me off. I rather see the sage/wizard whatever he is I forgot be into maxi than riftan