Ugh I kinda can relate to Andrew…as someone v introverted that has dated extroverts w lots of friends, it can feel v draining to try to associate w all your partners friends. You do it, cuz u care for them but it is difficult when you just feel like the odd person out and have to pretend that u happy in these big friend groups and whatnot…but I can also see the the other side, you can’t ask a partner to stop seeing their friends and ppl who make them happy just cuz for u socializing dont come naturally … thats just crappy and honestly a red flag if someone is asking u to distance urself from good friends. These two are gonna have to learn the good old balance game. I’m rooting for them cuz they clearly lov each other and just want to protect one another but rn is just
Ugh I kinda can relate to Andrew…as someone v introverted that has dated extroverts w lots of friends, it can feel v draining to try to associate w all your partners friends. You do it, cuz u care for them but it is difficult when you just feel like the odd person out and have to pretend that u happy in these big friend groups and whatnot…but I can also see the the other side, you can’t ask a partner to stop seeing their friends and ppl who make them happy just cuz for u socializing dont come naturally … thats just crappy and honestly a red flag if someone is asking u to distance urself from good friends. These two are gonna have to learn the good old balance game. I’m rooting for them cuz they clearly lov each other and just want to protect one another but rn is just