Umm.. guys, I'm just wondering.. would using dildo while in a relationship be a disrespect...

Im just a hole sir November 29, 2025 8:32 pm

Umm.. guys, I'm just wondering.. would using dildo while in a relationship be a disrespect to your boyfriend by default? I'm genuinely curious because I honestly think it is okay to use dildos even if I have access to an actual cock..
Do any of you have experience with these things? Pls don't hate me, I think some of you can see where I'm coming from..?

Responses
    MrJustice November 29, 2025 8:49 pm

    I don't think so, and generally don't see how it can be disrespectful ( °ᴥ ° ʋ)

    Peltoperlidae November 29, 2025 9:18 pm

    It's something hopefully you can talk about with them. Like mine was okay with me using toys when I was away from him, but he didn't like me using toys by myself if he was in the house and not asked to be involved. But it was something I asked in specifically about And we talked about it.

    Wow that's Very Illegal November 30, 2025 2:46 am

    Masturbation during a relationship is still very much a thing, though the details are very case-by-case, talk it out qith your partner if needed and if they say no masturbation ever then that'd be a bit iffy of them

    Akira Sakamaki November 30, 2025 3:23 am

    Gosh...it's your body and your choice. You can do whatever you want and if somebody is telling you the opposite they're controlling and manipulative. My bf literally incorriges me to try different things and he's happy when i do it bc I'm happy. Simple as that

    Im just a hole sir November 30, 2025 4:30 am
    Gosh...it's your body and your choice. You can do whatever you want and if somebody is telling you the opposite they're controlling and manipulative. My bf literally incorriges me to try different things and h... Akira Sakamaki

    This is very reasurring! Thank you so much!

    Im just a hole sir November 30, 2025 4:34 am
    It's something hopefully you can talk about with them. Like mine was okay with me using toys when I was away from him, but he didn't like me using toys by myself if he was in the house and not asked to be invol... Peltoperlidae

    I guess the best way is to talk try talking about it to a partner and see it from there, and hoping they won't be disappointed or something..
    Thank you @Peltoperlidae @MrJustice @Wow thats Very Illegal

    Im just a hole sir November 30, 2025 4:37 am
    It's something hopefully you can talk about with them. Like mine was okay with me using toys when I was away from him, but he didn't like me using toys by myself if he was in the house and not asked to be invol... Peltoperlidae

    *to try talking about it to a partner*