I would normally agree on this, except that like with BJ Alex it's not supposed to be toxic anymore after the redemption arc. So the whiplash was from not expecting anything like that anymore.
I'm also not one of the people that complain every chapter, I get the frustration on that too. Criticism should still be allowed though.
I had the scenario in my head that Kim Dan could see that JJK really changed and allow his own feelings towards him again. Maybe a little confession from JJK so that he has some time to really think about his own feelings and then it would have been on him to open up to JJK. But I expected JJK to behave in the meantime...

For once I was hoping he just called Dan to ask about his meals bcz it's the redemption arc and Dan's a nervous wreck but yeah. Guess I had my hopes up for nun