He never asked him to be by his side, he keeps following him and when he said no. No matter what his thought process, he said no, Su-ah should listen and not act like a stalker. He only needs Su-ah now because of Su-ah’s own fault. He kept scenting him all his damn life (even after he told to stop doing it) and now his body is dependent on it, so he needs his scent to even be normal. All the fault goes to Su-ah, not Juhyeok. He wants to love him and stand by his side? Well Juhyeok said no so he should know when to listen and not force himself in his life for his own selfish reasons.
Agreed. He should definitely find someone else to love him but here we are with someone who can't let go of the love they thought they had. I'm not placing blame on the omega I'm shedding light that the omega is all the alpha knew. Such a bond just going to crap would hurt anyone involved. I don't think he means to come off as a stalker but love can make people do crazy things. He's still holding on to lost love hoping it can be rekindled. Is he right? No but is he wrong to love the person he's admired for so long, no he has that right.
What he doesn't have the right to do is force himself on him which he was trying not to do until they both realized due to his scenting the omega is now dependent on his scent to keep him regulated. I don't think he actually realized the consequence until it was brought to light the effect it caused.
I think you're also forgetting that when they were younger omega said and I quote to the alpha "I'll make you my wife"
Because of how clumsy and pretty he was and how he'd always get bullied. This was before presentation.
Alpha is still clinging to the notion that "okay I can't be the wife but we can still be something right?"
Very much wrong by the omegas standard. Which is pretty sad when you think about it. Omega no longer wants to give him a chance because they presented differently. He gets embarrassed and tell him to get loss. I'd be heartbroken if my first love did that to me. It's a loss all around.
Also keep in minds they were in middle school when he learned that Su-ah has been scenting him and the doctor said if it keeps on happening he will have problems controlling his pheromones. BUT Su-ah still didn’t stop and kept doing it. That’s non consensual and purely out of his selfish desire to be with him. He knew well what it was doing to Juhyeok but his pure selfishness to be with him won. That’s not love, that’s making someone dependent so they won’t be able to leave you, that’s selfishness and passiveness over a promise you made when you were kids.
Solid point I didn't remember that one scene thanks for reminding me. You're right but honestly I think it was too late by then with how things were going. Bro need to give up man. I genuinely just think they need to talk it out instead of the whole aggression. He clearly can't understand aggression.
If he really loved Juhyeok then he would understand how this is difficult for him given his whole family are alpha’s and he was always treated as such, a sudden change is of course difficult to handle, even for his body. Maybe Su-ah didn’t know when he was a child. I don’t blame him then. But even after leaning that you kept scenting him knowing it’ll be bad for him in the long run is pure selfishness. Now they are adults, he should understand how important the sport is to him and how difficult he has it being an Omega in an Alpha dominated sport, he knows if he kept scenting him, being near him, it is going to make his pheromones worse, but he still doesn’t stop until Juhyeok really gives him an ultimatum.
Yep. They just need some space alone. Juhyeok needs to accept being an omega is okay and Su-ah needs to give Juhyeok his space.
I agree. At the same time Juheok doesn't give Su-ah a chance to actually support him he pushes him away. It's not like he's trying to stop him from achieving or doing what he's doing he's just worried about him. Again I don't condone him doing what he did but you have to admit juhyeok was being a shitty friend because of the differences between them.
100 percent on this
Y'all forget that the omega is Only like this because he didn't present as the alpha. They had a good relationship when they were younger and I want to believe the alpha didn't know any better because he thought they'd end up together no matter how they presented. That's what the omega had said. Then the omega presents and treats the alpha like shit just because he's not the alpha and he doesn't want to be treated differently because of his secondary gender? You need to stop overly blaming the alpha. He's loved that boy and he knows the omega is strong, he doesn't even care he just wants to still be the one he loves. But he dislikes him so much because he believes he should have been the alpha. He literally can't stand seeing how pretty he is and knowing he's the alpha. Granted alpha shouldn't have scented him the way he did without his knowledge. That's plain wrong but he's still under the impression that there's still a future they can be together. He wants the omegas acceptance. He wants to continue to love him and stand by his side. I can bet top dollar if omega didn't have to prove he's more than his secondary gender and was instead an alpha he wouldn't be treating the alpha this way.