Abusers are never abusive from the start. I'm thankful that so many have never been in this situation but before you judge the MC, you should learn about how abusers basically train - aka manipulate - their victims to blame themselves for how they are treated.
Most victims of abuse, before they met their abuser, also said "I'd never stay" or "why did they stay so long".
Their abusers love bomb, dig out our insecurities, and once their claws are in they start testing and breaking down our boundaries. Using our insecurities againist us. Weakening our dignity, self respectful, tolerance, and more.
They push us till we feel trapped, like we deserve this treatment, and we convince ourselves that with patience and love they will go back to the person they were. That they can change for the better.
And why wouldn't we? They changed before? Why not again?
The MC is a victim. He isn't stupid.
We all could easily find ourselves in an abusive relationship.
Abusers are never abusive from the start. I'm thankful that so many have never been in this situation but before you judge the MC, you should learn about how abusers basically train - aka manipulate - their victims to blame themselves for how they are treated.
Most victims of abuse, before they met their abuser, also said "I'd never stay" or "why did they stay so long".
Their abusers love bomb, dig out our insecurities, and once their claws are in they start testing and breaking down our boundaries. Using our insecurities againist us. Weakening our dignity, self respectful, tolerance, and more.
They push us till we feel trapped, like we deserve this treatment, and we convince ourselves that with patience and love they will go back to the person they were. That they can change for the better.
And why wouldn't we? They changed before? Why not again?
The MC is a victim. He isn't stupid.
We all could easily find ourselves in an abusive relationship.