Diona reminds me of my stalker thinking he "deserved" me just because we had a couple zoom calls over the summer. A relationship is a privilege, not a right. It's also a two-way street so you can never be "owed" or "owe" a person in a relationship. When we say "it's my honor to be in your presence" we mean that it's such an amazing experience to have that person around us. That's what being in love (romantically, platonically, sexually) is. But it has to be a two way street or else it becomes posessive, toxic, and creepy.
It sucks that Diona has an unrequited love for literal decades, but Tarcan is a married man now and she needs to move on. Her obsession has become unhealthy and she needs to learn how to be happy by herself before she tries to get into a relationship. It seems like the loss of her older brother may have impacted her psychology in some way or another, and she needs to find a way to cope in a healthy way.
Diona reminds me of my stalker thinking he "deserved" me just because we had a couple zoom calls over the summer. A relationship is a privilege, not a right. It's also a two-way street so you can never be "owed" or "owe" a person in a relationship. When we say "it's my honor to be in your presence" we mean that it's such an amazing experience to have that person around us. That's what being in love (romantically, platonically, sexually) is. But it has to be a two way street or else it becomes posessive, toxic, and creepy.
It sucks that Diona has an unrequited love for literal decades, but Tarcan is a married man now and she needs to move on. Her obsession has become unhealthy and she needs to learn how to be happy by herself before she tries to get into a relationship. It seems like the loss of her older brother may have impacted her psychology in some way or another, and she needs to find a way to cope in a healthy way.