I feel like this an appropriate time to ask: READERS, IS KEEPING A DOCUMENT ABOUT YOU A DE...

DogsNCats December 8, 2025 10:43 am

I feel like this an appropriate time to ask: READERS, IS KEEPING A DOCUMENT ABOUT YOU A DEAL-BREAKER?

In my opinion, knowing what I knew about Dohu, I wouldn't actually feel weird about it. However, I'm also a writer (mostly fanfic), so I never really found what Dohu did to be all that strange? His major is script-writing, he's a theatre kid and considering his diagnosis, I thought it was all valid.

Yes, I'm viewing this through the lense of the reader but I found myself realising that I'd more or less do same thing as Dohu did, except for the fact my memory is pretty good so the document stuff isn't needed.

Did Seo even know he's a novel writer??? I swear they covered it in S1 but again it's makes the breaking point even weirder? I'm pretty sure anyone with any level of interest in the arts would tell you that real life is a pretty good reference for the fictional world, so again I thought that the break-up would talk about his family forcing them to break up.

HOWEVER, I can also see where Seo is coming from, imagine dating someone for months and they never tell you about a document that had all your interests, basic information, and possible observations. Not long after your evil aunt told you nobody would love you for who you are. Shit would suck emotionally ngl. Finally letting your guard down on for it to be documented, and it's the first thing you see when you open your partner's computer screen...

But again, again y'all have been dating for months at least, shouldn't you know your partner's side hustle? Like CMON, it never came up ONCE??? Like idk, "Hey I work at a café, hbu bbg (let me hit)?" "Oh I'm an author/ghost writer for a few books that's all (sure why not)"

Maybe I need to sleep, I'm college rn, it's 3am and my exams are beating my ass stupid into making this post, I'M PROBABLY WRONG IGNORE THIS

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