The literal definition.
Grooming (Manipulation/Abuse)
In a more serious context, grooming is a manipulative process used by abusers to build trust and an emotional connection with a vulnerable person (often a child or at-risk adult) to lower their inhibitions and make them easier to exploit or abuse, typically for sexual or financial purposes.
This form of grooming is a calculated, multi-stage process that can occur in person or online.
Building Trust: The perpetrator seems charming and kind, building trust with the victim and sometimes their family or community to gain access and minimize suspicion.
Isolation: The abuser works to separate the victim from their supportive friends and family, making them more dependent on the groomer.
Desensitization: Inappropriate conversations or physical contact are gradually introduced to normalize the behavior and erode boundaries.
Abuse and Control: Once the victim has been manipulated and isolated, the abuser initiates the abuse and uses tactics like secrecy, shame, or threats to maintain control and ensure silence.

don't read the story if it bothers you so much.. at the end of the day, it's just everyone's own business and im sorry for interrupting your business i mean no harm ┗( T﹏T )┛
like: "oh, this looks like it has grooming involved. best i ignore this one"
yeah? yeah:)