I really hope they actually switch. I think the bigger guy bottoming would be really cool....

zippycappypappy December 9, 2025 7:12 pm

I really hope they actually switch. I think the bigger guy bottoming would be really cool. Especially since he is someone who has had trouble recieving love from his past.

I think him bottoming would be a perfect physical expression of the love that Ho has for him. This is absolutely the perfect couple to switch imo.

That, and the fact that they've teased it so much already. I hate switch-baiting so much lol. I've never understood the "I don't want them to switch" thing even when the top is small and the bottom is big (aka an unconventional pairing). If you don't like it, just skip the chapter.

I feel for many people, having their preferred top bottom even once "tarnishes" them in some way. Tarnishes their masculinity or tarnishes their "dom aura". I wish we didn't ascribe to such standard slightly misogynistic het slop and impose it onto queer couples but here we are.

My favorite rebuttal to this is people pointing out how *some* gay couples have strict roles, overlooking how the plurality of couples and queer men switch/are vers, in complete contrast to how 99% of all manga/manhwa/manhua/danmei has fixed roles. Even these real couples who have strict roles will still switch things up atleast once just for the experience, which is a matter for apparent comedy to even being up in most yaoi/BL media (see BJ Alex where the uke wanting to top is turned into a joke).

Just a shame we are still so rigid with all the roles. I'd say its homophobia, but y'all aren't ready for that discussion without calling me the friend that's too woke.

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    mimiko December 9, 2025 8:42 pm

    Many gay men irl have preferences and hate bottoming yall wanting to act woke so bad and ending but embarrassing yourselves

    zippycappypappy December 9, 2025 11:41 pm
    Many gay men irl have preferences and hate bottoming yall wanting to act woke so bad and ending but embarrassing yourselves mimiko

    You must have a humiliation or ownership fetish cause dear god do you keep getting it thread after thread.

    Sorry that the facts disagree with you numerically mama. Most queer men are vers, including those who have preferences, with *exclusive* tops and bottoms being under 10% in most cases.