The thing is that jinwoo just wanted to spend time with daehan, but theyve been so busy they cant see eachother. Then he finds out the only free time they could have spent together has been spent with another guy learning guitar and hes not kept in the loop about this at all. So its confusing to him
Jinwoo is aware that these people are into daehan, and that daehan just refuses to see it this way and put boundaries down. Daehan is really oblivious and gets manipulated/deceived by those around him really easily. And daehan wont communicate when things like that guy pretending to like jinwoo (when he actually likes Daehan and keeps making moves on him, infront of jinwoo too) comes up, due to his own insecurities. And starts behaving strangely. But to jinwoo who has been kept in the dark, he of course doesnt know what to make of this all.
Jinwoo can see these people have bad intentions, especially when they try to rile up jinwoo with pointed looks, over friendliness to daehan for show to make jinwoo worked up etc. but daehan refuses to see it how jinwoo is literally being treated by the people around daehan and seeing how people act towards daehan.
One of the main problems is that sunbae who doesnt know his place. But its unfortunately bringing up a lot of issues that have always been there on a smaller scale
Yes but he should have talked about it..If he wants to spend time and its an issue it is on him to communicate it instead of acting childish. Its the fact that he didn't try communicating that to begin with that started causing problems. If he communicated it more things would not end up like this. The lack of communication and pettiness is still from his part to begin with. Not saying Daehan is perfect but its on Jinwoo to communicate this properly its not like Daehan would immediately know how Jinwoo would have felt. If he wants to spend more time..ask him beforehand to spend more time. He can't cancel plans for Jinwoo's sake last minute.
Jinwoo is way too insecure and you can't just suddenly push all your friends away and be like don't touch me anymore just because you are in a homosexual relationship. Some people just don't mind these things and maybe Daehan just doesn't care.
They both need to work on communication but this level of insecurity and jealousy should not be encouraged and if Jinwoo had a problem he should have communicated it earlier. Though Daehan does need to work on not doing things with friends if he doesn't feel like it too he still does have a bit of boundary issue.
But if Jinwoo actually talked about this more calmly at the beginning things would probably not turn out this badly. They both need to work on things together but being their first one and both being young miscommunication is bound to happen lol Its just immaturity