Are we talking horror as in actual horror or horror as in rape porn

>looking for a new horror BL
>ask the BL reader if the BL manhwa is horror horror or rape porn
>she doesn't understand
>pull out illustrated diagram explaining what is horror horror and what is rape porn
>she laughs and says "it's a good BL sir"
>Read it
>it's rape porn

Huh

As always, 4chan explanation is the best sir!