I agree with this 100% Daehan allows people to drag him around even in the midst of important conversations, and that has allowed for people to mess up countless relationships he has been in (especially the jealous seniors). He has a lot to work on and Jinwoo did well communicating what was bothering him, Deahan didn’t even hear him out properly. Their issue is definitely communication and a lack of boundaries with friends and peers.
exactly. it's truly kind of awful seeing jinwoo continue to put daehan first even when their relationship is hanging in the balance and daehan can't even tell his friends to wait in favor of a conversation that he recognizes to be important, but not important enough to miss the meeting i guess daehan is really really close to understanding what he needs to do to make this relationship work but seeing him continue to just barely miss the mark is so frustrating. i really do not want jinwoo to be the one always chasing after him and being the bigger person while his feelings keep getting trampled on like
i feel like i'm losing my mind reading some of these comments acting like jinwoo is some overly possessive person who doesn't want to let his boyfriend have any friends, like are we even reading the same story y'all for a lot of the arguments against jinwoo to have a leg to stand on, we would have to pretend that yeonseo has not been behaving provocatively with daehan on purpose. we would also have to pretend that he hadn't clearly communicated his problems directly to daehan already, and we would have to pretend that he's unaware of his feelings of jealousy and that he hasn't been taking steps on his own to overcome these feelings despite him rightfully feeling miffed about being blown off repeatedly. in truth, the main problem really is yeonseo, but yeonseo wouldn't have even been able to get his foot in the door with his behavior if daehan were even marginally more aware. i haven't seen one person here say daehan can't have friends or be close with his friends, but allowing his friends to do what yeonseo did (on purpose, mind you) in front of his boyfriend is completely insane. some appropriate distance simply has to be in order no matter who you're dating. idk about anyone else, but i'd never want to see my partner with somebody hanging all over them, whispering in their ear, and putting their fingers all over their neck and beneath their collar #sorry