Also one other note sexual assault is literally a way to dominate someone and make them feel weak and useless. There is no way you can excuse something like that and if you can. Good luck in life. However the seme isn’t toxic so I don’t completely hate him and I do believe that he is a redeemable character. There are so many worse semes this guy doesn’t even come close. And the way the story is written is very tastefully done :D
no one could’ve said it better
If you disagree with the objective fact that sexual assault is bad you need help. your brain is only in your head for decor if you can’t use it to think about the countless consequences of being assaulted.
you sums up everything perfectly and i genuinely feel sad for both of them.
Both characters are dealing with the unfortunate consequences of their secondary genders and I feel bad for both of them. The uke is not an asshole, his childhood friend literally assaulted him and yes he doesn’t want to be an omega because he wants to be seen as strong and he has prejudices against his own secondary gender, but this is not a matter of him getting over that internalised sexism. The seme treating him like that doesn’t allow him to accept his secondary gender, it only reminds him that he constantly as to be reliant on someone who is a lot stronger than he is. Being an omega is genuinely one of the saddest things that you can be because just in real life you are just reduced down to you biology and the fact that you constantly need sexual satisfaction and children. I feel bad that their relationship is ruined and the seme isn’t a horrible guy, the story just needs to be processed. He thought he was doing the right thing but he obviously wasn’t. The uke needs to communicate that boundary with the seme and to be honest if the seme doesn’t listen to those boundaries the uke doesn’t have to entertain the relationship. I don’t understand why most people have a forgive and forget attitude towards this, it is like telling a woman to get over sexual assault cause a man is really besotted by her. It doesn’t matter you don’t do horrible things to people that you love. I want the uke to get better but he, like I said needs to communicate with the seme. :(