Yeah I get that. What I'm saying is that in reality, uke won't be able to bear the pain with so minimal prep-- not even if they love the seme to death. I know this is fiction, but even just the thought of that kind of pain ruins the romance for me. I really wish yaoi authors would also indulge readers with ass prep. Because the patience and willingness to ass prep before sex is also romantic in its own way, esp since it involves a care and consideration for the uke who is already willingly sacrificing his butt lol
Anyone with a brain would look into how it works. Of this was a real situation he would have tore him and made him bleed, but watch them leave that port out of the story conveniently everyone is praising them finally fucking and is completely ignoring the fact that idiot said he ingnore sex ed so he doesn't know how to wear a condom??? And let's not forget sex ed is only going to go over straight sex they don't explain how gay sex works at all why would you not have done some research? Which we can he can after he looks up all that BDSM shit with that dumb understanding of his. How the fuck is this man a university student? No wonder he's barely passing His mom must donate a lot of money in the school.
Yeah I have a feeling that it's the young teenagers who don't care or they never looked into or respected gay men enough because it always turns me off when they just shove it in.
even as a female, I feel like virginity when and you lose it they don't care like you need to be prepped as a woman too especially for your first time But guys use the excuse i'm too horny, I can't control myself becauseyour so hot
do you think that's sexy if you say that you don't respect me enough to control yourself and give me a good experience?
I never liked that trope it's a bad thing to spread around

Makes me a bit sad that there are so few seme who properly prepare the uke during their first time. Anal for the first time is so fckin painful. Its like excruciating pain. I cannot believe anyone could get hard or receive any kind of pleasure from the kind of pain an under-prepped ass gets when penetrated. Kinda ruins the romance for me :(