As much of an asshole the ex bf seme is, I really appreciate how he's portrayed as such - an asshole. The uke doesn't "like" being raped and doesn't slowly fall in love with the asshole seme even if he rapes him. He's legit traumatized - has nightmares and even tries to run away from abusive seme. I don't know what it's like in Korea but it doesn't seem like you can go to the police if you're gay and tell them your bf and his friends raped you. So many yaois have ukes falling in love with abusive rapey semes. THAT IS NOT NORMAL. You don't need to fall in love with your rapist if you "feel good" or climax :( yaois that show such unhealthy relationships normalizes what should be a crime. It's hard enough for people who are gay and get raped to go to the police, normalizing it just makes it so much worse.
As much of an asshole the ex bf seme is, I really appreciate how he's portrayed as such - an asshole. The uke doesn't "like" being raped and doesn't slowly fall in love with the asshole seme even if he rapes him. He's legit traumatized - has nightmares and even tries to run away from abusive seme. I don't know what it's like in Korea but it doesn't seem like you can go to the police if you're gay and tell them your bf and his friends raped you. So many yaois have ukes falling in love with abusive rapey semes. THAT IS NOT NORMAL. You don't need to fall in love with your rapist if you "feel good" or climax :( yaois that show such unhealthy relationships normalizes what should be a crime. It's hard enough for people who are gay and get raped to go to the police, normalizing it just makes it so much worse.