As a struggling-to-accept-it aromantic: if this is what a qpr is, I want one.
But also I don't think I'm capable of (platonically) loving someone that much. I feel like I can only really love in theory. When it comes to practice, I find that I struggle with showing up and constantly being there for people, with empathizing without feeling like I'm putting on a performance.
Essentially, am I putting myself in a box by trying to assume what love is?
As a struggling-to-accept-it aromantic: if this is what a qpr is, I want one.
But also I don't think I'm capable of (platonically) loving someone that much. I feel like I can only really love in theory. When it comes to practice, I find that I struggle with showing up and constantly being there for people, with empathizing without feeling like I'm putting on a performance.
Essentially, am I putting myself in a box by trying to assume what love is?