U may find something in this list perhaps
https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/3348103/
THIS!!! I much prefer love to sex rather than sex to love. I want them to genuinely like and desire each other BEFORE the smut starts. I find it so much more satisfying than getting slapped with smut the second I start a story and wait for them to fall in love while they continue fucking. I mean nothing wrong if that's some people's preference but, why are they almost all like that?? It's not even that I prefer shounen ai, I like mature scenes, I just like it better when it's MORE than just mindless smut

honestly theres no bl that got me excited to read anymore. maybe im the problem cus i chose to drop each manhwa after only reading halfway but it just doesnt excite me. i miss those manhwa and mangas where they got like all flustered and has good plot and actually leads to somewhere and not just straight up p0rn. anyway this post is also an ask for help of recommendation