These two pissing me off, but also the comments on how "date your club members/friend instead then!" Or "id break up with him over that too" are as well. People have the right to keep their plans with their friends/clubs, they're in fkn college, that's literally the whole reason they're there and honestly, i think school clubs and friends should hold at least 60% of space in your heart when they were literally your grounding place before the relationship compared to a partner they have for maybe a few weeks or months. A good partner wouldn't ask to cancel or change plans, but to plan around and have a fkn discussion BEFORE blowing up about wanting to spend more time together and maybe establishing boundaries, and than childishly saying that you're too touchy with your friends, isn't this a double standard? Girls say I love you and hug each other all the time and put girl plans before their bf (unless they already had plans with bf or a important occasion) and it's never an issue unless they meet like 5 times a week or something, and at that point you have a conversation not go straight into I'm jealous and want a break mode. And this not to say Daehan isn't a fkn wreck either cause you Also don't fkn run away from tough topics or conversations like damn kid, that's 100% on him. He was doing so well even with being misunderstood as a delinquent in the first arc and now it's like he reverted to a middle schooler, very immature, but his intentions were always pure... (until some words he said on the heat of the moment which was .. so stupid on the authors part). And im so sick of the jealously trope with the tops in bls over friends and colleagues. Unless it's actively other suitor, just talk over your damn feelings! Frankly, they both suck atm and i am not liking either of them, but I don't think this stupid argument is worth breaking up over and I'm gonna strangle the damn miscommunication trope at this rate. I'm already in agony from "Between the Lines", but at least Dohu is more open to change and forgivable (my tired and dead king) though Juheon still makes me rub my temple whenever he opens his mouth this second season... (But Chp. 28 is giving me some false hopes )
These two pissing me off, but also the comments on how "date your club members/friend instead then!" Or "id break up with him over that too" are as well. People have the right to keep their plans with their friends/clubs, they're in fkn college, that's literally the whole reason they're there and honestly, i think school clubs and friends should hold at least 60% of space in your heart when they were literally your grounding place before the relationship compared to a partner they have for maybe a few weeks or months. A good partner wouldn't ask to cancel or change plans, but to plan around and have a fkn discussion BEFORE blowing up about wanting to spend more time together and maybe establishing boundaries, and than childishly saying that you're too touchy with your friends, isn't this a double standard? Girls say I love you and hug each other all the time and put girl plans before their bf (unless they already had plans with bf or a important occasion) and it's never an issue unless they meet like 5 times a week or something, and at that point you have a conversation not go straight into I'm jealous and want a break mode. And this not to say Daehan isn't a fkn wreck either cause you Also don't fkn run away from tough topics or conversations like damn kid, that's 100% on him. He was doing so well even with being misunderstood as a delinquent in the first arc and now it's like he reverted to a middle schooler, very immature, but his intentions were always pure... (until some words he said on the heat of the moment which was .. so stupid on the authors part). And im so sick of the jealously trope with the tops in bls over friends and colleagues. Unless it's actively other suitor, just talk over your damn feelings! Frankly, they both suck atm and i am not liking either of them, but I don't think this stupid argument is worth breaking up over and I'm gonna strangle the damn miscommunication trope at this rate. I'm already in agony from "Between the Lines", but at least Dohu is more open to change and forgivable (my tired and dead king) though Juheon still makes me rub my temple whenever he opens his mouth this second season... (But Chp. 28 is giving me some false hopes )