Rant with swear words and a 'bit' of yelling ahead: Don't want to worry your 'delicate' self over swear words, don't read. Because this just literally made me snap;
WTLF? Victim blaming in this kind of circumstance???? You are also saying things that I can only describe as the EPITOME of hypocrisy. He TOLD the guy what he felt and this is what happens to him. THEN you say the guy should have been upfront with him, this time around, so that this could happen a SECOND TIME, apparently so that you could THEN blame the guy, AGAIN? Seriously, that's some fucked up bs, right there, sweetcheeks. OR, and this is even BETTER, blaming the guy for the seme raping him the first time around without regards to his feelings (he fucking LAUGHED OFF losing his fucking ring in the guy's ASS. This, AFTER he totally disregarded the guy feelings about him disappearing for THREE FUCKING MONTHS - HMM, wonder where the other guy had the fucking opportunity to be UPFRONT with the guy during THAT time he DISAPPEARED ON HIS OWN - then returning after getting married and not thinking that maybe, PERHAPS, his shameless attitude in reporting it might JUST, a TEENY LITTLE BIT, have hurt the other guy? Seriously, he has fucking MOMMY issues but that is IRRELEVANT to what an ASS he was being there, AT THAT MOMENT. KTFBN.) BECAUSE you continue to wonder why the guy wouldn't WANT to be totally upfront with him after that, EITHER time???? In conclusion, you people are SOOOOOO fucking contradictory. Blame the victim for not being 'upfront' then blame him for being upfront then blame him for being a 'pussover'. Yeah, that's just SICK. Thanks.
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Ok i'm sorry if i offended you but it's clearly that we have different perceptions of the story, i didn't blame the "victim" i was just saying that up until the rape scene he didn't help the situation, he shouldn't have gone to the hotel in the first place and he still had lingering feelings for the ex but i can understand why, no need to get so defensive over fiction though. Again i'm sorry if we're not on the same page, you're welcome. I hope your "delicate" self will be able to take an opinion in the future without having the need to yell in people's faces, i understood the error i had in my opinion but you didn't have to make such a big deal out of it, but instead try to explain calmly, have a nice day
The ex reacted badly and their relationship was complicated but the uke handled the situation poorly as well, he should have been more upfront about what he feels and what he thinks rather than just ignoring and disappearing.. I would have been mad as well, i understand that the ex kinda has mommy issues and is a coward and he shouldn't blame the uke for his failure in marriage but at the same time i feel like he has a right to feel angry a bit, he overacted though but i think that's due to him feeling like he is losing everything he has.. I wouldn't call the uke a victim since they both were in the wrong. The uke for not being more honest and open and the ex for neglecting him for so long and even getting married to someone else because of his fear of social rejection. I feel bad for both in a way.