As I see it..
The seme is a drama queen with unrequited love with his friend for so long..he changed from a sunny personality to a gloomy and depressed divorcee..
The uke is the worst type of love interest. INDIFFERENT.. yeah, for me, this is the worst type. You can love them so much and they would never realize it. Not because they're too dumb, no. it is because they are never too interested in others in the first place. Uke here, NEVER ONCE ASK ANYTHING. that ain't bec. of reasons like respecting space but bec. he didn't care enough to bother.
the conflict is MISUNDERSTANDING.. very common to relationship
Nah. The seme is just a jerk. It's ok if you're hurt but you have no right hurting someone else because of it. In the end, he didn't even apologise. He was too selfish. It doesn't matter if he never 'betrayed'. He still made the uke feel used and hurt. The one to start the sex r/s again was the seme. So he was the one hurting himself. Don't blame others for your own inaction.
Great of you to blame the uke.
The uke DID NOT HAVE TO DO ANYTHING. He was not obliged to. You're making it seem like it's HIS FAULT for not saying anything when the seme did nothing either. Great onesided view you have there. And you call others being unfair? The seme is still a jerk, the uke never wanted to INTENTIONALLY hurt the seme but the seme DID with his words.
Come on, the SEME was the one who got married. The uke would obviously be wary. Where was the seme's balls then? Why did the seme not confessed? Why is it riding all on the uke?
SO what, you are hurt and have onesided feelings you think it's alright to hurt others and say "oh it's my defense mechanism". Nope, you're just a jerk. At least apologise. But he did not even do that. The uke is magnitude times better because he actually bothered getting to the bottom of everything. If it was up to the seme, he would have simply wallowed in self-pity and think it's ok to hurt others because you think your love is unrequited. Selfish jerk.
Seme's balls were chewed off by his ex wife.
You know what I actually agree with you. ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ Well I was pretty much thinking similar thoughts to yours about this story's relationship dynamics.
I think the uke also always loved the seme, but it just took him longer to realize because he also thought the seme was having sex with him as a friend, so uke went along with it.
Guess those points were used by the author to do this manga(๑•ㅂ•)و✧
What
I
understood:
Warning: this is the summary of what I thought..
1. Seme has always been in love with the uke.
2. Uke ONLY see their relationship as physical even from the start.
3. When they separated, seme was hurt. He got married but in his heart, there's only one person.
4. And when they met, the seme said the uke never changed because, the uke is still willing to do "it" with him as a FRIEND.
5. The outburst(saying hurtful things about doing it with other people) is just a hoax, a self-defense mechanism. Because the seme actually took a break from his job after they saw eacch other. So he never betray the uke.
6. Uke only develop feelings AFTER they met.
7. Uke finally got the balls to ASK about the seme. In short, he FINALLY got interested in the seme as a man as he SHOULD have been all those years ago.
8. When seme wanted to get back on the job(escort), uke got him back...
What interest me are the comments about the seme being such a jerk... But it was just lack of point of view of the seme..