HAHA damn. tbh the ex is so fine and there's not a crazily solid reason Minsuk shouldn't f...

Kiyotake November 11, 2017 6:10 pm

HAHA damn. tbh the ex is so fine and there's not a crazily solid reason Minsuk shouldn't forgive him if he chooses to,etc.. that we know so far anyway. anyway i'm glad it happened though since Bexan and Minsuk have never really discussed their relationship and it was in a kind of weird friends with benefits / kind of romantic place so they can clear this up now and move forward as appropriate and figure their feelings out

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    toto November 11, 2017 6:29 pm

    dont know why u got so many downvotes. ur totally right

    kyra 23 November 11, 2017 6:40 pm

    The only point I disagree with is you saying he didn't have a good reason to not forgive his ex. His ex left him, and stop talking to him. Also, his ex is controlling and fa as I see, he makes decisions for Minsuk without talking about it and he seems to believe that everything should go his way. That's a good reason to break up permanently. When you are a couple, you talk about it.

    Kiyotake November 11, 2017 6:42 pm
    dont know why u got so many downvotes. ur totally right @toto

    holy crap! didn't even know i did. i think the downvotes are out of protectiveness of bexan x minsuk relationship. which i guess i was misunderstood, i do like them together! but they really haven't had a conversation of what they are together, and the story of minsuk and his ex is unclear so i can't really judge and banish the ex over what was told to us so far. this plot point was necessary regardless, bexan and minsuk need to talk and define their relationship. i can't hate minsuk with his ex since we don't have any valid evidence they shouldn't be together, nor do we know how minsuk feels. i think it's easy for yaoi readers to just ship a ship and fxck all else but realistically.. this is how it is

    Kiyotake November 11, 2017 6:51 pm
    The only point I disagree with is you saying he didn't have a good reason to not forgive his ex. His ex left him, and stop talking to him. Also, his ex is controlling and fa as I see, he makes decisions for Min... kyra 23

    i agree, so i had said i didn't see reason Minsuk shouldn't forgive him if he chooses to. i don't see anything amazing about his ex yet, he does seem controlling / manipulative a bit in the way he's giving skinship after abandoning Minsuk without a word, but i really don't know their relationship to point him to the door yet, it's really something Minsuk would have to decide after valuing their relationship. the point we don't know is, (though it seems likely) was the whole i need my playstation thing a way to get into Minsuk's house and try to win him over in bed, then that's definitely a bad sign. Maybe Minsuk knew he would, but let him come close since he knew Bexan wouldn't let anything happen. anyway we need more context to really close this chapter, also if he wants Minsuk back Minsuk needs to be clear, but so far he seems to have not made a definitive answer yet so we'll see (i know he was shocked when Bexan said he's your boyfriend but he didn't say no, and that's because he and Bexan haven't actually defined their own relationship for him to explain himself) anyway i like this series so far it's more realistic reactions and conversations than some other bl

    Anonymous November 11, 2017 7:19 pm
    i agree, so i had said i didn't see reason Minsuk shouldn't forgive him if he chooses to. i don't see anything amazing about his ex yet, he does seem controlling / manipulative a bit in the way he's giving skin... Kiyotake

    This ex dude also went ahead and decided all by himself that Minsuk should come along with him to live abroad, and get rid of the dog... He doesn't worry about how Minsuk would feel about leaving his job, friends and family behind, or if he really wants to get rid of the dog... And Minsuk just goes along with it all, as if he was used to adopt an uncharacteristically passive role with this lover and just humour him in everything... All this leaves a real bad taste in my mouth and sets off warning bells that this one of those real toxic relationships that make true the saying "better alone than with bad company", and that even if Bexan wasn't there, Minsuk should really, REALLY, end things with this guy, once and for all.

    Kiyotake November 11, 2017 7:31 pm
    This ex dude also went ahead and decided all by himself that Minsuk should come along with him to live abroad, and get rid of the dog... He doesn't worry about how Minsuk would feel about leaving his job, frien... @Anonymous

    yeah... there are a lot of of warning bells. what we don't know is what was discussed before the ex left him though say if he had mentioned living abroad before or what not just to play devil's advocate. also we don't know much about Minsuk's background, etc. i'm sure they both know each other well enough so everything from this conversation is kind of a question mark. seems more like Minsuk has things he wants to say but hasn't yet said them, or maybe he's mulling things over before having a conversation about what the ex wants to talk about. worst indicator is how flippant he is hating a dog because i LOVE DOGS. but we all know he's close to getting a boot from the story so we just need to see how it all pans out