
I honestly wouldn't take this too seriously. Also, one thing has been bothering me, you seem to have this accidental habit of going off topic or going to the extreme such as "I never understand the paradox and the ones who worship amatornormativity."
It's okay to be passionate about a subject, but you gotta time it and try not to push it in last second. I'd to that a lot when I was younger, heh all my strawman fallacies.
Amatornormativity is a bit of an off-topic word to use in this "shipping war" (Nisekoi all over again) most of these readers probably aren't thinking that the MC finding a lover is the only goal in life, they're thinking who they prefer him with since this the author is writing this as a romantic yaoi.
Of course, It would be very interesting to have a manga that explores different types of relationships. I'm pretty sure there are a few, but I honestly never remember titles.
yaoi readers :
Seme 1(the mc): is a rapist or treats uke like shit but uke loves him then they are okay with it.
but
Seme 2: is a rapist or abuses uke but uke does not love him then They are like He is trash and too bad.
That's a fun double standart. ┑( ̄Д  ̄)┍ I never understand the paradox and the ones who worship amatonormativity.