Love your assessment !
Thanks! I used to be Jaeha, always running from my feelings when things got too intense, pushing people out of my life to protect myself and then whining that no one would stick around. I always chose guys I could manipulate like that, weak, clingy guys that I could feel a little superior around because I could "mother" them. That is, until I got too attached. Then, I'd cause a fight and break up. I was a train wreck of a person. Then I met my husband. He let me "mother" him, but he never needed me to do it. He stood by me, but he never clung to me. He spoiled me, but he never let me get away with being a spoiled brat. I never knew just how much I needed a guy like him until I found him. The new Eunho reminds me of my husband... not the sadist part, my hubby is a big teddy bear. It's his determination that is similar. I think Eunho's love for Jaeha has always been real (or as real as fiction allows lol), but Eunho was not the kind of person Jaeha needed. Now, he is and he can give Jaeha what he needs rather than just giving his blind love. Even the greatest person in the world won't make the best partner for you if they are not what you need to be the best you, you can be. I'm only this confident in this couple because I lived it.
Thanks, again, for the compliment. Hope you find, or have found, the person you need too. Have a great day.
So happy that you have found "The One" ! I did too, 32 years ago. (gosh thats a while ago ! ) lol The world would be a so much better place if everyone could find their "one". Blessings to you and yours !
Eunho is now a man with a mission! He's no longer the innocent, clingy child he once was. We all grow as we experience the world around us and we grow tougher and smarter when we face adversity. Right now, Eunho is showing Jaeha a little tough love. He's not going to chase him or cling to him because that is not the kind of man Jaeha needs. He needs a man whom he can cling to, be protected by and rely on. Eunho was not that man two years ago. Jaeha can barely keep himself standing when he's in a relationship, let alone support a lover. His lover must be the strong, steady one. Eunho's approach is a gamble, but since Jaeha is such a self-flagellator and a masochist, I have a feeling that it will work.