When dealing with a person or entity that gaslights, look at what they are doing rather than what they are saying. What they are saying means nothing; it is just talk. What they are doing is the issue.
5. Their actions do not match their words.When dealing with a person or entity that gaslights, look at what they are doing rather than what they are saying. What they are saying means nothing; it is just talk. ... Ceci
His action show that he does care, like blushing, hugging, trying to protect him
This similar or the same what makio does to wachi https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting
It is creepy af