I mean it’s a comfort and preference thing, not really about being uptight.
To a degree, sure. But if you aren't willing to hang out and have a discussion about preferences and comfort levels, it doesn't seem like you were very invested in the relationship in the first place. Honestly though, the relationship between them had been going downhill for a while and I think she was barely hanging on by this point anyway. This was more a last straw
The relationship was going downhill for sure, there was nothing between them except for looking like a couple. I honestly think she did what she thought was right, since they were not being honest with each other and neither wanted anything from each other at this point.
Good on him! I'm surprised he didn't snap years ago. As for the girl, she should have just offered to help. Too uptight considering she had the tool for use on her, but heaven forbid he should want something used on him. Talk about double standard.