Yeah, agreed. Honestly, I think it's good that they're talking, and even arguing, to see where they have each other, because they've made it clear that they don't actually know that much about each other. But, still, it's petty they way Sihoon acts as if Junyoung has to follow his every intent.
I was like, "Well, it's perfect, then! Junyoung gotta do his service, so then you can stay busy over there, too!"
However, I can also understand that it's hard to be away from each other for so long, and maybe if they did it in order they'd at least get to see each other in between (that's definitely the case if he went to America with him.)
But I don't know how long you can postpone the military service. If it's something he's forced to do, and soon, then is there really so much to argue about?
Oh, come on! Seme, honestly, you are like a baby that gets cranky and whiny when uke doesn't do as you say. You think you are doing the best you can for the uke, but if he doesn't want to go, he doesn't want to go. I wouldn't either. My future is decided by me and not by my partner on a whim. They make me so tired, always finding problems and for the most part, they don't seem to match. I love it when they get along, but that lasts VERY shortly.