Mentally ill

Nitrogenix August 31, 2018 8:50 am

Being mentally ill, and growing up in a environment without love, without a good example, without good help, in a society that sees almost every little thing as a weakness. Well no wonder he grew fucked up. He is expressing his love entirely the wrong way, but he never learnt probably how to express it the good way. Everyone here is good at bashing him for being a (psycho) but I kind of feel for him. He probably will never find anyone who can love him for who he his because of his behavior. People think it is easy to change but it isn't, without proper help and a good environment it will be almost impossible. You can't buy true homely love with money, you can't buy motherly love with money. I feel for the guy, even when he is the bad guy. I hope foor Yohan and Soohwa that they have a good relationship, but I also hope for the lilte brother to find a person who understand him.

Responses
    Perlita-chan August 31, 2018 9:25 am

    I applaud to and thank you for pointing this out. As someone who’s currently studying psychology, I literally was about to type an essay about why it’s wrong and rude to call him a “psycho” or “crazy.” Thank you so much~~~ you explained it very well and it’s one of the main reasons why I always try to not hate the antagonist right away becuz there’s always a background to story to every character and to everyone in the real world that explains bits and parts of why they are who they are in current times

    hopeful August 31, 2018 9:37 am

    thanks! spoken from my heart too

    Nitrogenix August 31, 2018 9:47 am
    I applaud to and thank you for pointing this out. As someone who’s currently studying psychology, I literally was about to type an essay about why it’s wrong and rude to call him a “psycho” or “crazy.... Perlita-chan

    Yes I feel the same way. People don't just turn out the way they do because they simply have a mental illness. He probably never had a dad around to tell him right from wrong, or a mother who hold him close when he needed it. He turned out that way because of many factors, and when it is wrong what he is doing, he probably thinks he has no other way. No one told him there is anther way. Yohan was someone he probably cared deeply about. It makes me sad when people bash him, it reminds me of my youth, where people told me I was weird. I would never get any friends. Because of my Autism I always got left out. Society is a cruel place, especially for children who don't fit in. I wish people would understand it just a little what monsters they are creating by leaving people out of society by calling them names or whatever.

    Perlita-chan September 1, 2018 7:06 am
    Yes I feel the same way. People don't just turn out the way they do because they simply have a mental illness. He probably never had a dad around to tell him right from wrong, or a mother who hold him close whe... Nitrogenix

    Words do hurt. Words have so much power, whether it’s good or bad, and people don’t know the weight of them. I understand you so much and can relate of many levels. Although I don’t have autism, I have been bullied for being “different” so I empathize with you.