YES!! Exactly! That's the same kind of messed up thinking that keeps unhappy married couples together "for the sake of the kids". Such utter bullshit. And she is just a nursery worker, not even a friend or anything. Geez lady, mind your own business.
Hell yes! She has no idea whats going on at home she sees these people for a minute a day. She's doesn't know anything. Kids can get attached to randoms easily. A four year old I look after will go up and sit in a strangers lap and act as though she loves them but half the time she won't even say hello to me who she's known her whole life! You can't guilt strangers that way you busy body! *rant over...?*
What the hell is up with the Nursery school teacher interfering in the parents private life? Mind your business people. You can't force a man to get back with the person who abandoned them just cause it'll make the kid happy. What about the parents happiness? In a few months the kid wouldn't even remember this strange man! Like yeah it all worked out but still.