Agreed. But my freshman year in college, a rumor started up that i was a prostitute because of what I wore (which was usually just a tank top and shorts). I was too afraid of confrontation about it. I was raped a few months after it had started. I was already so guilty and in a pit of nonethingness that all they saw was a slut, I couldn't tell my friends or my family about it till a few months later because that aching feeling of being in a situation of being part of an ugly lie and then being used because of that one ugly and pinning lie I couldn't say anything. Like i was brainwashed into thinking I wasn't suffering and Every one goes through this. I blamed a close friend of mine for this, we are friends again, but it was because my brain wasn't functioning, traumatised that I actually did something that what people thought of me as. I was just living up to the box I lived in.
Oh my! That's terrible. I'm so sorry you had to go through all that. This society makes us believe the actual victim is to blame. If we dress in a sexy way, if we are friendly, if we are walking alone at night, if we paralise and dont fight back... The saddest part is we, the victims, believe this shit and end up blaming ourselves. It takes time to see through the shit and heal, and when we can finally talk about it, we're criticised for hiding it for too long and not exposing the attact earlier...
But we have each other, you have all our support, and talking about it will eventually help to change minds and build a better society.
Love!
I'm so sorry you went through all that. You were really strong. Talking in these situations is really hard tough lots of people don't get it.
I didn't like what Youngmin did, but it's fiction all in all. Your case being reality is more debatable. And at least you made up with your friend and you stated you weren't ok when all of that happened.
By the way, you are much more better than all the people gossiping around you without knowing shit and I hope you could have talked about your rape. You deserve a happy ending.
We are all going to change the world together
Hell yeah we will, compatriota argentinx!
Es muy gracioso, todos hablando inglés cuando en realidad podríamos simplemente usar el español. XD
JJAJAJAJ no sabía que eras argentina xD Bueno ya que estamos en el topic ABAJO EL PATRIARCADO
Power to the people, stick it to the man!
Ni adelante, ni atrás, siempre juntos a la par! (●'◡'●)ﾉ
Que agradable sujetx
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that is so sad bb :'( I'm sorry you went through such hell
Oh my gosh! I wasn't on for awhile and I get these beautiful messages. I actually cried, this so sweet to read, my smile is beginning to hurt. You are all so lovely and have a beautiful mindset. I wish you guys the best futures, and for those best futures you need those feelings of sympathy and awareness, as well as positivity. Thank you all xx
I wish the same for you too. You are amazing!
When is Youngmin gonna realize he was raped? I'm getting so anxious. ╥﹏╥
Still, that was so coward. Instead of confronting the guilt of lying to Jungwoo he actually ran away blaming some thing on him. Up until now I was by Youngmin's side, but, come on!! What guilt has Jungwoo for having an older man's face, huh?! Besides, he didn't even cleared things up at school, he just let people have his way and misunderstand. You can't blame that on him. I'm so angry!!
Even so, I totally want the truth to be found out so he can report that fucker of a teacher.