i feel the same way as you but i am not asexual nor aromantic,its the reason why i still don't have a boyfriend i just want to be with only one person.I also don't get it how someone can fall in love many times.
I get you guys, I'm 30 and I have been in love only once, I have been interested in some people, but not in love. It was a painful breakup, and I find it really difficult falling again, I can't imagine, being as introverted and shy as I am, maybe one day
what is the meaning of asexual and aromantic please? .... I'm also like you , i want to be with the person i love .... i had one boyfriend but i felt nothing for him, i liked him but just as a friend but i was so naive back then to understand my feeling so i just went with the flow and dated him for 2 months that's all . I'm 23 YO now and some people say i'm weird because i don't like dating...... Idk i just feel like it's waste of time .
I don't mean to be that one odd person but I find it kind of... sad how he got over the person he really loved and how he loved someone a lot before meeting the other guy. I know these sort of things happen in real life but I just don't understand how people can come to love more than one person so much. I've never been in love and I doubt I'll ever be (aromantic, asexual) so maybe that's why I don't get it. So to me, this story isn't really cute or anything. I hope I don't offend anyone out there, although I believe I didn't say anything offending(?)