Heasoo's suffering

Tai June 18, 2019 2:55 pm

I feel like when Mr. Choi finds out about the truth about their relationship, all hell will break loose. The thing is Jowoon never had to face the consequences of their relationship being known...not even his father knows. Heasoo's mom knows and he has to face the fact that his mom's marriage failed because of them and his mom is still upset and finds it disgusting (rightfully so).

Heasoo always have the baggage/suffering of the relationship. Jowoon didn't. He's successful, loved by many and still gets to sleep with Heasoo. Heasoo is in a slump in his career that no one takes seriously, his mom and him don't have a good relationship, he feels like a failure, Jowoon walks all over him, even when Heasoo voices his opinion, he gets down or Jowoon manipulates him into feeling guilty. That's why I feel bad for Heasoo. Sure, he isn't the best character, he has his moments when he can be bitchy (that's kind of the point of his character but I don't think he should be the one called toxic or blamed for all of this.

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    letsyaoiourlives June 18, 2019 3:01 pm

    You are so right. This isn't about the correct ship anymore. Like it's clear that Haesoo feels suffocated and Jowoo, even if tries to change, they've been in this for so long that it'd only be natural to fall into the toxic life style again.

    Lily June 18, 2019 4:07 pm

    Liked this comment.
    But if you think about it, they just lived the same, reacting differently. As they say it's not what happen to you but how you react. In fact, that is THEIR problem, H and J. Why the mom should feel RIGHTFULLY disgusted?
    I think that this is more a matter of character, nature

    Tai June 18, 2019 4:38 pm
    Liked this comment. But if you think about it, they just lived the same, reacting differently. As they say it's not what happen to you but how you react. In fact, that is THEIR problem, H and J. Why the mom sho... Lily

    If your son was fucking his stepbrother, you wouldn't be disgusted? I don't believe she has a problem with him being gay, she's disgusted that he is still fucking with Jowoon. That's is disgusting in her point of view.

    letsyaoiourlives June 21, 2019 1:03 pm

    Maybe all along, they've never been in love but just fell into this type of relationship because of the struggles and pain they felt while being teenagers. And so they got attached to the familiarity that they've "found" in each other. Just because they've been with one another for a long time doesn't make what they have correct nor healthy. Maybe the whole point is them learning that they should love themselves first before someone else. But they won't be teaching each other self love. Just an assumption.

    Lily June 23, 2019 10:03 pm
    If your son was fucking his stepbrother, you wouldn't be disgusted? I don't believe she has a problem with him being gay, she's disgusted that he is still fucking with Jowoon. That's is disgusting in her point ... Tai

    And why is that? They aren't really family, their parents married, and that's it. No, I would not feel disgusted.

    Lily June 23, 2019 10:05 pm
    If your son was fucking his stepbrother, you wouldn't be disgusted? I don't believe she has a problem with him being gay, she's disgusted that he is still fucking with Jowoon. That's is disgusting in her point ... Tai

    And I still think that the mother can ne disgusted but not "rightfully" and it's not up to her but to her son to decide what to do with già feelings

    Kyon^.^Kyon June 23, 2019 10:45 pm
    And I still think that the mother can ne disgusted but not "rightfully" and it's not up to her but to her son to decide what to do with già feelings Lily

    That's some sweet home Alabama way of thinking...... I'm dyingggggggg

    Lily June 23, 2019 11:04 pm
    That's some sweet home Alabama way of thinking...... I'm dyingggggggg Kyon^.^Kyon

    Sorry but english is not my motherlanguage so I can't understand what you are saying..or implying..

    Kyon^.^Kyon June 23, 2019 11:17 pm
    Sorry but english is not my motherlanguage so I can't understand what you are saying..or implying.. Lily

    It's an American way of saying you have an incestuous way of thinking. Especially since the two brothers destroyed their parents marriage for just fucking around in the beginning cuz they didnt start this out of love

    Lily June 24, 2019 8:45 am
    It's an American way of saying you have an incestuous way of thinking. Especially since the two brothers destroyed their parents marriage for just fucking around in the beginning cuz they didnt start this out o... Kyon^.^Kyon

    You know..J was cool and popular since young age, so did he really need H to fucking around? I don't think so. How can you decide why that started. And anyway, you all keep talking about incest but they aren't brothers. If you are do closed minded I wonder why you read this kind of things...

    annehime June 24, 2019 8:50 am

    People.. get this straight. If your parents remarried it's = to you being brothers or sisters. AND IT IS INCEST.
    It's unfair for real life families if you say "You're not real sisters!" if the parents remarried. is this Cinderella? What about adopted?? IT IS INCEST. The mom has the right to be angry. Just because it's manga don't romanticize things... Altho Joowon and Haesoo are hot too.

    Kyon^.^Kyon June 24, 2019 12:15 pm
    You know..J was cool and popular since young age, so did he really need H to fucking around? I don't think so. How can you decide why that started. And anyway, you all keep talking about incest but they aren't ... Lily

    I didn't decided anything. It was in the story. Haesoo himself said they started it cuz it was fun doing something they shouldn't... Even the story is telling you it's wrong

    Kyon^.^Kyon June 24, 2019 12:30 pm
    People.. get this straight. If your parents remarried it's = to you being brothers or sisters. AND IT IS INCEST. It's unfair for real life families if you say "You're not real sisters!" if the parents remarried... annehime

    Honestly I would've found it hot .. But knowing haesoo feels guilty about it kinda turns me off and idk how to explain this but how they drew the sex scenes for joowon and haesoo made me feel a bit uncomfortable like you can tell something was wrong. It's not like i don't like cherry blossoms in the winter and stuff like it so i know it's not specifically the brother thing that bothers me.